Hi everybody!!!
Im new to this board and I want to share my story.
Im in despair now!
I dont have children at all and most of all I strived for is becoming a mother. I want to feel what is it to be a mother, to have child, take care of him and know that somebody in this world needs you very much. I guess its pleasant feeling
I wanted to adopt a child. Im from Germany and wanted to adopt a child from Russia. Due to my problems with health I cant carry out a child myself so the only two options for me are adoption or surrogacy. I was totally against the surrogacy so I decided to adopt. I was in queu for 3 yearsI gathered all the documentsI even can show you the photo ofmy boy.
here is his photo ion official site Детальная страница ребенка - Усыновление в оссии
And what now? the forbidden foreigners to adopt their children and the three years of torture ended with no result.
Im in despair!
My friend also had problems with health and she took part in surrogacy program in one clinic. She said that Im stupid and should try also this program but I didnt want tobut now I think she was right then. Her baby is more than a year now and I have nothing.
So now I also want to try this clinic. She says that it nice. Now Im waiting for arranging the date of arriving
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Thread: i'm new here and i'm in despair!
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April 3rd, 2014, 08:38 AM #1
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i'm new here and i'm in despair!
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April 3rd, 2014, 08:47 AM #2
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Hi Emma, big hugs!!! I'm sorry your adoption fell through.
Something similar happened to a friend of mine but with a happy ending...she applied to adopt a little baby boy who had yet to be born and was very excited (she had gone through many miscarriages, more than 10, and was unable to carry a child). While waiting for the child to be born, she found out she was pregnant...didn't think much of it because she always miscarried....except she didn't!! Halfway through her pregnancy, the birth mom of the baby she was going to adopt changed her mind and my friend was devastated. But...my friend was halfway through her own pregnancy too and found out she was having a boy, she was going to be getting her little boy anyway. 
Sometimes bad things happen but great things happen afterwards...hang in there!
Maybe you should post on the adoption board or infertility board, they may know more about surrogacy and all that it entails. Good luck!Mommy to
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April 3rd, 2014, 08:51 AM #3
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Emma, check out this message board about all things surrogacy: All Things Surrogacy - BabyCenter
I'm sure the ladies there can help put your mind at ease!!
Mommy to
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April 3rd, 2014, 09:02 AM #4
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Surrogacy is a great option!
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April 7th, 2014, 06:12 AM #6
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such a story with happy end!!!wish i also could have happy end...
Originally Posted by Houseofblue
Hi Emma, big hugs!!! I'm sorry your adoption fell through. Something similar happened to a friend of mine but with a happy ending...she applied to adopt a little baby boy who had yet to be born and was very excited (she had gone through many miscarriages, more than 10, and was unable to carry a child). While waiting for the child to be born, she found out she was pregnant...didn't think much of it because she always miscarried....except she didn't!! Halfway through her pregnancy, the birth mom of the baby she was going to adopt changed her mind and my friend was devastated. But...my friend was halfway through her own pregnancy too and found out she was having a boy, she was going to be getting her little boy anyway. Sometimes bad things happen but great things happen afterwards...hang in there!
Maybe you should post on the adoption board or infertility board, they may know more about surrogacy and all that it entails. Good luck!
i'm in another situation. i can't carry bcz doctors forbid me to get pregnant...my organism just will not cope with the pregnancy and i can die...
but maybe happy end will be when i use the surrogacy as an option.
my friend used and now she has her little angel...
she suggested me to do it together but i was against.. now i regreti didn't listen to her.
thax for the information given
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April 7th, 2014, 06:12 AM #7
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thank you so much! Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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April 7th, 2014, 06:13 AM #8
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now i also think so! Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink
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April 10th, 2014, 09:08 AM #9
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thanx for support!i also hope Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush
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April 10th, 2014, 09:09 AM #10
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now i also concider it as an option! Originally Posted by nuthinbutpink
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