I want a GIRL!!! AND I'M READY TO CRY FROM SWAYING!!!! OVERWHELMED

[MamaLuv]

Also Atomic, What are your thoughts about supps? I was taking the calcium (In-Gender) but from what you suggested about Calcium swaying boy, I cut that out. Should I still cut out the magnesium and the cranberry supp too? I was thinking I need to take Metamucil and folic acid. Is that all?

[Rosie85]

If atomic recommends you could take low dose aspirin instead of the cranberry.

[marriedmomof2]

Mamaluv did you buy aci jel restore or aci jel balance?

[MamaLuv]

Marriedmomof2 I bought balance. I have a general question. Atomic recommended I do D and J but is that a good idea if we're going to be doing FR? Won't that hurt my chances of getting pregnant even more since there will be less sperm anyway if I'm wiping some out?

[atomic sagebrush]

If your acijel doesn't arrive on time you can use Replens or KY jelly instead.

[atomic sagebrush]

Also Atomic, What are your thoughts about supps? I was taking the calcium (In-Gender) but from what you suggested about Calcium swaying boy, I cut that out. Should I still cut out the magnesium and the cranberry supp too? I was thinking I need to take Metamucil and folic acid. Is that all?

The only reason magnesium was ever included in sway supps was to make calcium "better absorbed". So if you're not doing the calcium, you don't need the magnesium.

I do not think cranberry is safe and it's also additional nutrients. Essay here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...echniques.html

[atomic sagebrush]

Marriedmomof2 I bought balance. I have a general question. Atomic recommended I do D and J but is that a good idea if we're going to be doing FR? Won't that hurt my chances of getting pregnant even more since there will be less sperm anyway if I'm wiping some out?

Yes it will, but remember, we may not want you to get pregnant this month anyway so as to give you a bit more time to get your plan in place.

some people have been able to conceive doing everything. FR, one attempt, jellies, and immediate J and D. (look up Zanacal's sway) Most people haven't. By doing a super strict sway this month, you can rest assured you have done everything in your power to sway pink and if a swimmer gets thru all that then it was meant to be. And if it is BFN you will have a little more time to regroup and feel like you have your ducks in a row.

Last minute panic and a flurry of swaycession (swaying obsession) is prob. not conducive to TTC a girl anyway, so I think you are best off playing it conservative and strict this month, doing a tough sway, and then leaving in in God/the universe's hands...you will know that if you do get pg, that little one was supposed to be in your family!!

[MamaLuv]

True indeed. I have been trying to relax. I've been caught up in doing everything right. Once I have a plan down I'll feel better. It's just so much information to take in that I'm always finding out new info that seems to be changing everything.

[pinkiepie]

True indeed. I have been trying to relax. I've been caught up in doing everything right. Once I have a plan down I'll feel better. It's just so much information to take in that I'm always finding out new info that seems to be changing everything.

Howd u go hun


Don't let the bastards get ya down

[Drunken Cockatoo]

I can relate as I also came from IG over a year ago to find Genderdreaming. I was so overwhelmed, but I also struggled at IG because I wanted to read what was the theory behind the sways. It's really worth investigating a few hours into LE, because it was constructed from really well known and even proven theories. I remembered that for example the Trivers-Willard-Hypothese was teached to us in medicine and psychology at university. My DH knows it, too from university. Our teachers showed us so many studys to back it up. So I personally feel that LE ist scientifically much more plausible and proven than IG. I know it is frustrating to change your path. But you're doing good!!!