April/May/June 14 swayers...

[kitkat18]

Oh boysway I'm so sorry (( you said all the right things too maybe just give him some time?? Do you think it's the pressure of swaying or other things going on? Hugs!! its soooo frustrating for you xxx

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[daisymoo]

aw poor guy if he is feeling depressed it might be worth taking a little break from ttc this month and maybe he can relax a bit. Maybe just a few weeks off from ttc might make him feel just right as rain again hopefully. You should take some time for yourself too. All this ttc lark seems to be taking it's toll on you on hon. I would still get someone to mind your kids as planned and just go for a bite to eat etc and no dtd. It might do ye the world of good to get off the topic for a while. Hugs to today x

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[stephk]

oh no boysway poor you and your poor DH. TTC really does suck doesnt it. I agree with daisy - its great that you have a babysitter tonight. Maybe just go on a date, enjoy being out together for what it is and maybe skip this month if too stressful

[Rosie85]

so sorry boysway. I hope hubby comes around for you.

I got my positive last night at 10:30 right after Dh and I had another argument, haha. I wasn't expecting it and was stunned when it showed up. So we got over our fight which was actually about attempting and we had DH release once on his own and then we got in the hot shower. It took a while... because it was after one release and then he drank some wine too.

I painted my nails and put on my rose quartz bracelet and stayed up a bit before going to sleep next to my salt lamp, hahaha...can't hurt right?? Now it is morning and I am starving but really want a 16 hour minimum fast. I had a little wine before attempt at 10:30pm. I haven't eaten since 6:30pm though. I should count the wine still I am thinking.

[stephk]

I never count wine just when I last ate....damn oh well at least my drinking is weekend only! Cant wait to mix a cosmo when I get home

Been so hungry this week. At the moment, my colleagues are sitting around me eating a delicious looking carrot cake! I wish they would hurry up and finish it because I am feeling very weak right now!!!

[Rosie85]

So I shouldn't count the wine then??? If I wait until 2 pm to eat I will be at 20 hours since I last ate

[bluebonnet22]

Rosie - I definitely wouldn't count the wine! Eat something !

[Rosie85]

oh I guess wine on an empty stomach lowers blood sugar like crazy. Hmmmm

[daisymoo]

Well done Rosie You finally got your attempt in Yay!!!! I've said it before and I'll say it again if you don't get a daughter no one will!!! You have put so much in to your sway and your hubby has been great too! I have everything crossed for you!! x Now go and eat!

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[elise20]

It is so cool reading about other people with all of the same thoughts and concerns that I have!
My DH has been getting pretty fed up with all of this, too.
He's been doing FR for the last ten days and says he feels "used and abused" I told him to hang in there and we just had our attempt last night. I had a light-ish line on the OPK, but figured it was only a day before my +opk and decided to go for it, as I didn't want to try to put him through another night of FR. If it doesn't work this month, I think we're going to need to switch to abstaining next month, as this is too much for him.
I tested this morning and it was really close to a +OPK, so I am wondering if I should maybe have him release on his own, around 7 this evening and then BD one more time, around 9 or 10 tonight. What do you ladies think??