Please Help! Urgent!

[Pinktink]

Hi! I am a bit frantic at the moment and I need some advice. I was advised to do DTD at +OPK.
I stupidly bought some cheap OPKs from the internet. I came close to 2 +OPKs and I posted them on our FB group. I was advised that they were close but not close enough - and I felt the same way. (This was CD 12 & 13) my maybe baby was only partial ferning so I left it be as my DH is doing abstaining. I done the maybe baby this morning and I had full ferns. I was sick of trying to read the OPKs so I went and bought the clear blue digital OPKs. I had some twinges in my right side early this morning also. I just got home and done the smiley face OPK and its negative!
what the eff do I do??? my pH is 4.5, and I have very little creamy CM. I usually have lots of EWCM and I usually ovulate around CD 20-23. This is my first cycle off vitex and SP.
I really dont know what to do and I dont want to just miss this cycle. Do I got for it right now or attempt a O+12 tonight? Please advise me on what I should do!!

[stephk]

What CD are you on now?

[Pinktink]

I'm CD 14

[Pinktink]

Last cycle I O CD20 and the one before was CD22

[stephk]

What does full fearns normally mean? is it the same as OPK where you will O within 24-48 hours or is it a different timeframe?

[Pinktink]

Yes, the full ferning indicates to me that ov happens 24-48 hours after . I just don't know if I trust the maybe baby and dtd tonight thinking it's a -2, dtd tonight thinking I have O today making it a O+12 attempt or hold out until I get a +OPK. This is driving me crazy lol! And thankyou for your replies

[stephk]

Obviously I am not an expert, I hate OPKs and interpreting them and I have never used ferning. However if it was me, i would BD today and keep taking OPKs to see if you get a positive. At least you are then in with a chance if the ferning is right and you do O today or tomorrow. And you never know, if you take another OPK today it may be positive.

[Mulberry Smurf]

I would bd today and 4 days later to have a chance at getting one bd at pos opk but I think you may have missed it this month xx

[angielorna]

You usually ovulate around CD 20-24? And you're CD 14? That's a big difference!
Just do it. You'll feel better and, as already mentioned, if you get a positive OPK later, you can do the it again in 4 days to be in your furtile time. Perhaps DH will have to move from abstain to CFR?
I'm sure if Atomic sees this, she'll have some solid advice for you
Angie

[aidansmum]

I would do it too just for peace of mind, but I don't personally like the ferning thing, never worked quite right for me. I would definitely stick to the OPK's and would even try FMU and 2MU if still negative, as I got many negatives with FMU and then positive with 2MU! Good luck and a blaring BFP for you soon. x