New year babies !!TTC Pink in May

[SamS_TTCPink]

Yes!!! Some days I'm just so over it, over not being able to eat like I want, train with weights and monitoring ovulation, timing of sex etc!! And after our loss and then missing our opportunity of getting the first egg (cause DH "couldn't do it") I've found it really hard to get motivated again. I don't get it....I want my daughter sooooo much but I feel like I'm going through all this and then it's not going to be worth it anyway when I still don't have my daughter in my arms even if I have a successful pregnancy and baby as it will be another boy.

[lyagirl]

Cant imagine how you feel mumofsix, I feel a bit like I know it's all for no reason and I only have two boys! Love them to death but soooo badly want a girl to feel complete.

[PrimalMamma]

Hearing you lyagirl I'm a mum of 2 boys & #3 will be our last. My boys are darlings, if I have another so be it.... But every dream I have ever had about my life has had a little girl in it.


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[stephk]

Ladies I am so with you all on these feelings. We broke the rules and BD last night (2 days after the last attempt) only because we won't have time today and will be too tired tomorrow after the flight! I feel so full all the time this week I'm kind of looking forward to less food again - although I'll likely take that statement back after a couple of days lol!! I've made peace with another boy as I know that's what's going to happen. I don't have the confidence I can totally do this anymore but we will see when I get back. Really annoyed I'm not able to do an OPK today.

Mumofsix I'm so sorry to hear about what happened with your DH - I hope he comes around soon. If anyone deserves a girl, you do.

[daisymoo]

Girls I so know how you all feel too I relaxed my sway and diet this month as I was afraid I wasn't ovulating and the sheer thought of that at my stage in life (turned 39 last week!) frightened the bejaysus out of me and we also dtd 2 days in a row but like you Steph I am totally 100% ok with having a fourth little man. I would love a daughter too but I think at this stage once my baby is healthy I will be over the moon regardless of the sex. Remember you still have 50% chance of boy or girl with each pregnancy without swaying. I have lots of friends with both and not one of them ever swayed. So don't lose hope. You never know what you will be blessed with x

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[stephk]

Daisymoo I hope you stay in touch with us you always have great things to say

[PrimalMamma]

Thank you Daisymoo I really needed to read that tonight. I just need to chill the fuck out (pardon the French but really...!)


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[laVieEnRose]

Girls, I feel exactly the same!!
I have started swaying in January and I too am a bit fed up to keep up this diet to a strict level...tonight I don't care I'm having a curry take away, that is all. (Lol).

[SamS_TTCPink]

Ohhhh so jealous laVieEnRose! I said to DH tonight, I really want a meat curry from the best Indian takeaway/restaurant we have here. We compromised with LE and ended up with an entree serve of Dahl soup and a roti bread. I'm still starving and still want my takeaway curry! Lol! 😀

[Kidandcatmommy]

Although I feel bad that other people feel like I do I'm also glad in not alone in feeling it! Primalmamma that is how I was last night after my husband talked me off the ledge reminding me that we are doing something different to achieve a different result so I shouldn't expect it to go exactly like the other times and that everything happens for a reason so don't obsess about missing an ovulation chance just move on. I guess I should take my own advice since I'm constantly teasing him by singing the Let it Go song from frozen to him when he won't get over something!