Due in December 2014 - Jan/Feb 2015

[dreamingofwin]

Sorry for your loss odd.

My niece was born this morning. I knew she was a girl so thought id be ok. Im not and its really effected me and I've been crying for all the wrong reasons. I think it was seeing her name, my surname with a girls names in front. I feel so much guilt towards this baby if its a beautiful boy. Very hormonal and confused today x

[b'smommy]

I'm so sorry for your loss odd. I wish I had good advice for you, but I'm just not sure. I have heard too that miscarriage sways pink as well.

Dreamingofwin ~ I totally feel you and your feelings are very normal. It's tough when you want something so bad and you work so hard for it and it seems to come so easy for others. I had this happen recently with a best friend and it just hurt so bad. I'm thankful to have a husband who supports my feelings and does not think I am crazy, haha.

[Yahmama]

I'm so sorry for your loss, odd xx

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[kitkat18]

Odd my advice would be to attempt again, its only been three weeks and it does not sound like you went crazy food wise! Rosie 85 and mum of six I think tried again straight away but I guess it depends on how you feel , taking a month off might be a good thing too! Good luck with your decision and sorry you had to go through this!
Awwwwhhhh dreaming im sorry that hit you sooo hard! I have been there too , you know you will love that little niece to bits but you just want your own little girl!! I too cried when I found out my bestie was having a girl after her son and I had 2 DS it seemed so unfair! I totally dote on her daughter now and say we will have to share her if I don't get my own!! Hugs to you!! It doesn't help all those pregnancy hormones!!
B s mummy you are very lucky your DS is soooo supportive mine thought I was mad!! Xxxx

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[LilithWiser1979]

Aw, dreaming! Hugs! I have SO many nieces (5 in total) and every single one was hard on me. THEY had trouble having boys, while I couldn't seem to make a girl to save my life. I've been there, and I really hope this one is your DD.

Rosie, odd and Mumofsix, I can't wait to see you guys back on here! I sincerely hope the next bean you catch is sticky

I have my NT scan on Monday and I think DH's going to stay home and watch the kids instead of going with me. I'm trying not to let it effect me, since I know he's still sore about having a third kid, and I'll be glad that they aren't there if something is wrong, but I was thinking this would be a good way to tell the kids about their little sister. I guess I can take the ultrasound pictures and DVD home and show them (if everything's fine, that is!) and they can know that way, but it does feel a bit lonely being the only woman in the waiting room without her SO there. I guess I'm hoping he changes his mind over the weekend.

Is anyone else thinking about baby shower already? Maybe I'm just being cheap, but I rarely buy anything but the odd onesie or "omigod, too cute to leave on the rack" outfit before the baby shower. I am such a ridiculous hoarder about my baby stuff, I kept everything gender neutral from the boys, so I don't really need anything but clothes, which is what everyone loves to buy anyway!

I want to do a rainbow theme, and have a tie-dye baby shower where everyone brings a blank onesie, romper, dress or receiving blanket to dye. Yeah, I'm a hippie <3

[belledandy]

Oh no, sorry to hear of your loss odd! Hope to see you back here sometime soon. I had an early loss around 5 weeks the cycle before I had my son. Good luck!

[flowerlily]

So, I had my dating scan today and everything with baby is fine. I'm 11 weeks 4 days, so I was spot on when I thought I ovulated. I thought it was either 31st of March or 1st of April and went with the second one which gave me a due date on the 22nd of December but the scan said 21st, so only a day difference there.
Here's the baby:


I won't bother posting it in the u/s section as there's nothing to guess at this gestation.
The baby was moving so fast she could hardly find it's heart beat, but in the end she even managed to capture the little performance that the baby did, it flipped!!
I can bet that this is another boy! Even my other two never moved like this!
They saw blood in my urine sample and it was sent to the lab to be checked if there's infection, I won't hear from them until earliest Monday afternoon as it's weekend. The funny thing is that I'm not feeling any discomfort passing urine. So, if there's nothing, I won't be hearing from them.

Good luck everyone with the upcoming scans! It's such a joy seeing a little someone inside you growing! I had a little cry today myself, although I heard the baby's HB before (when I fainted), but seeing it was magical!

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[Yahmama]

Aww, so cute! And it is so magical hearing the heartbeat! And just so you know, my DD2 was the most active of all my babies and my DS2 was the least and I worried about him all the time not moving!
I always heard anyway, though in the old wives tales that supposedly girls are more active? IDK for sure, though. So happy for you!

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[Prayingpink]

I'm sooo sorry for your loss odd. I wish I had more words of wisdom but I know nothing anyone can say can make it hurt less. I just hope you feel comforted knowing there are so many of us supporting you and routing you on.
Dreaming we have all been there. I have the sweetest niece I could ever imagine and anytime I see her I can't help but have overwhelming jealousy. They wanted a boy so badly when he was born and I know my brother is jealous that I have 2 ds. So I the feeling is totally mutual and we of course adore the children we have but I just hope I can experience having a daughter and I hope my brother can have the next boy in the family.
It's funny because for the longest time I was confident that I am having a girl and now I'm thinking there's just no way. I have all girl guesses on my nt scane but I was only 12 weeks and idk to me it looks like it could turn out to be a boy. And to imagine myself with a daughter is almost impossible as I have never even really been around girl babies other than my 1 yr old niece. We I think of not having a daughter I feel heart broken but then look at my boys and realize that I WILL be ok with it once I know. I had awful GD with my second son and felt such guilt once he was born. I think it's just driving my insane not knowing.
Flower lily it is early to guess but I know it's fun to find out what ppl think regardless so I'll lean pink for the time being. good luck

[dreamingofwin]

I was involved in a road accident yesterday. I was taken to hospital in an ambulance and checked over. I have to go back to Tue to check everything is ok with baby. It will be a long few days x