Due in December 2014 - Jan/Feb 2015

[sweetdream]

Guess I'll be joining this group. Carefully though. had a bfp this morning. Its very light.. took one later but still very light.

I think it's true though. try again tomorrow.

I'm suprised I still feel this calm. Glad I'm off diet and excercise. (I will keep working out some but different.)

we want to try to stay team green too!

[LilithWiser1979]

LOL, sorry flowerlily! I've been off and on so much I've forgotten who's been on here since the beginning!

Sorry to hear about your strange pains. Hopefully it's just some normal stretching and fetal development stuff! FX for you

I'm 13 weeks now, and ultrasound tomorrow! DH has decided to stay home with the kids instead of going with me... boo! Anyway we're going to tell them as soon as I get home and I can show them the DVD and ultrasound pics. I think they'll be excited (DS1 has been asking for a baby sister for years,) but DS2 is super clingy and I'm afraid of some serious bitterness towards the baby from him. He still begs me to wrap him in a towel and carry him when he's done with his bath "Because I'm your baby." He'll be almost 4 when this one comes.

[sweetdream]

Lillith. My youngest is around the same age. Same behavior but I think the age gap Will be perfect for him.
I think it makes it easier for him at this age.

[LilithWiser1979]

Yeah, I certainly can't be accused of "taking his babyhood from him" by spacing them too close, LOL (not that I believe that for a second if anyone was offended by that joke. It's just something I've heard said that I thought was absurd.)

Hopefully he'll have had enough time being the baby that he won't see his sister as his "usurper." I just know that he's a sensitive kid, and I don't want him to take my caring for the baby as neglect toward him.

[Lolo]

Sorry for loss odd (( xxx

[sweetdream]

my tests is darker! I'm starting to believe. Been slightly nauscia since yesterday morning.
I bought myself online a cute top, dress and pens for me. And the cutest girl outfit I Could find. (For a boy there was nothing I love) someone said I deserved to. It felt good!

[flowerlily]

Welcome sweetdream and congrats on the BFP! I'll add you to the list. So exciting to have so many of us here! Hopefully more will join us this month.
P.s When do you think your EDD will be?

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[flowerlily]

Lilith, I totally understand you. I've had a few moments like that myself, especially when people change their avatars! And I recently changed mine, how strange!
And I'm like 'is this the same person or what?!' Sometimes I need to go back a few posts to just make sure, lol.

I really hope whatever that's going on with me is nothing serious as last night I went to a 'night time clinic' and I did two different urine samples and there was nothing! But I still have the pains.
So, just to be on the safe side I made another appointment this pm with my GP, and hopefully I will still be in the clear.
Plus she can call the hospital re the results from Friday's sample.

Good luck with your scan today! Please share with us some of your scan pics.

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[angielorna]

Good luck on your scan today Lilith!!! I'm sure DS2 will adjust. My 6 year old really wants a baby sister (but a brother would be ok to, says he) and my 4 year old is adament he wants NO baby in this house! Hahaha. He tells me he's a big boy and not a baby, but he doesn't want to bring a baby home.

Flowerlily, I hope you figure it out soon!

Welcome Sweetdream! Very exciting to see darkening lines, isn't it?! I tested this am and almost had heart failure because the first test came up neg initally, then not as dark as yesterday. Checked back 10 mins later, darker than yesterday (dang dollar store tests!). I almost broke down and used my last digital weeks indicator!!! Pregnancy is almost as nerve wrecking as TTC!!!

Angie

[belledandy]

Congrats Sweetdream! Great to see those lines getting darker!

Flowerlily, I hope everything clears up and you and baby are fine.

Lilith, so exciting about the u/s! My older son, now 5, is like your younger son, lol. He still acts like the baby a lot of times, more than our 2 year old who's always saying "I DO it!" and he does, lol. I haven't told my boys yet because I'm afraid of how my older DS might react. The first day we brought DS2 back, he looked at me and said, "I HATE YOU!" several times. Back then, he was 2.5. Hoping this time, he's much better, lol.

I don't think I can go team green even if I wanted. Will probably try to find out from the Verifi test next week asap but not tell anyone til my 16th week scan to confirm. Oh gosh, getting so nervous about whether this is my pink little baby girl or not.