Heartbroken over potty shots

[covered in blue]

I'm hoping you get a really good look at 20weeks Laurie xxx. It sure has been a really hard time emotionally and perfectly normal to feel down. You feel like you have so much riding on it.

[Laurie1161]

Think I'm trying to convince myself there's a chance they could say it's a girl after being told boy lol wats the chances of that happening lol saying that with the last 2 weeks I've had nothing would surprise me blue x

[covered in blue]

Yeah I bet! It would be so much easier if we didn't have to have these feelings but they are what they are and you can't just wisk them away. What can you distract yourself with for the next couple of weeks? Do you know how to knit? lol. My motto is "fake it till you make it" lately and it seems to help for me. If you can start trying to love the idea of another boy then if it changes again it will just be a bonus.

[Laurie1161]

I just keep thinking how cool it's gonna be ds2 having a brother so close in ages there always gonna have a friend to play with , no but I wish I could knit lol my wee ds2 is keeping me on my toes he is a great baby though very content seems to be when I wake my heads all over the place but as the day goes on I'm fine . Are you ttc blue or xxx

[kitkat18]

Laurie I really feel for you!! Its so hard having got your hopes up, I would picture a little boy, choose a name etc and then you are going into 20 week scan thinking no and you never know you might be surprised! I would also not worry about feeling down or upset GD is soooo hard and only those that have been through it understand it, we are here for you!! Xxxx

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[kitkat18]

No was boy!! Predictive text x

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[mommymachine]

Laurie I completely understand. All I can say is that Ds3 changed my heart so much. He just turned 4 on June 7th and I love him so much. When I first looked at him it was like getting hit with a bus, that little boy got me hook line and sinker. Love at first sight for sure.

[Laurie1161]

Thanks kitkat , I'm really looking forward to my 20 week no matter boy or girl , just want to see him again x after that I will start the exciting stuff like shopping and name picking , I didn't really keep a lot from ds2 whoops so need a crib and new clothes , I'm feeling a lot better and I've noticed instead of thinking boy girl boy girl I'm thinking about things like breast feeding and labour I've started feeling really strong movement today too it's wonderful xx

[Laurie1161]

Hey mommy , I can imagine he did , I know I'm gonna feel the same way , did any of you guys feel like before you found out the gender everyone was all excited and always calling etc then when you found out the baby was the same gender as before people kind of lost interest? When I got told girl my MIL , friends everyone was all talking about names and clothes all excited including hubby and now boy I've not really heard or seen from any of them maybe I'm being paranoid

[Laurie1161]

My brother laughed when I told him and he said I still think it's a girl