Heartbroken over potty shots

[mommymachine]

Yes!! Also, I had some family members not even show up to the hospital when DS3 was born. But they were all there with DD1. But all of that just made me more protective of DS3...I mean they love him NOW, don't get me wrong...but yes they were less excited.

[Laurie1161]

My mil was there when I found out girl and she was like all over me , she's got 2 boys all dh family have had boys , she was texting me constantly talking about girly things but nothing really now. That's terrible not even turning up to the hospital! I know what you mean about being more protective my mil didn't speak to me and dh for the whole 9 months of my pregnancy with ds2 then turned up at my house the day I got out with presents and money then stopped talking to us again 2 weeks later because there family live quite far away and we hadn't been to visit mil - mum and dad but I had stitches and couldn't sit in the car for too long , never spoke to us or seen the children for 8 weeks

[Mrs_Incredible]

After gd at my gender scan with ds3, along with sobbing for a day or two, he really stole our heart in a big way. Not that his brothers didn't, but instead of gd at birth, it was pure love at first sight (again). He is blond and blue eyed with curly hair and the light of our lives xx


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[covered in blue]

Oh those DS3s! They are heart stealers for sure . I'm super protective of my DS3 too. For almost the first year of his life I've been full up just with him. Only now that he is 1 that my dream of having a girl has resurfaced. It gets easier though. If you can keep the two issues a bit separate then it seems to be a bit easier. Like yes I have this dream to have a little girl, but I can fit this little boy into the plan. He's a bonus baby. Obviously he's meant to be here

[Nich27]

that looks girl to me not a penis!!!

[covered in blue]

I was talking to DH about these images again last night actually. He was saying how it's possible to make a boy look like a girl if the settings aren't quite right. Also the angles can make things look elongated or shortened etc. Definitely don't think it's as simple as they make out on IG. Especially before 20 weeks.

[Hopeful someday]

And yet the girls at ingender were right , no????

Sorry you had to go through this laurie, there really is no excuse for a place like that to be getting gender identification so wrong, that was a clear boy shot in your first pictures, I'm gold you got a refund but it doesn't make up for the heartache

[Laurie1161]

Yeh blue I think I'll be the same after a while the girl dream will come back , I don't know when I will be able to have more children as were gonna have the 2 14 months apart. We need a bigger car, bigger house it's going to be a busy year but dh is that chilled he's like I want lots if kids , I told him I know I'm only 25 but my body really needs a break from this for a few years , I'm getting aches in places I never thought I had lol , I searched the net for weeks looking for an image that looked like mine with the big long bits and never found any so weird , it looked like that again on Sunday at certain angles just these huge long lines . I don't think she would have said boy though if she never saw sonething even though she didn't seen very good at what she was doing . I'm looking forward to meeting my little man xx

[covered in blue]

Absolutely. I'm sure he will be gorgeous!

[Laurie1161]

Your little man is so cute !!