Heartbroken over potty shots

[covered in blue]

Yes hopeful it seems the girls on IG were right at this stage. There was a 50/50 chance they would be anyway. The images have been flogged already though and I think many people have given their opinions. Trolling to make yourself feel good isn't what we are about here. If you would like to join this supportive community to help plan your sway, or get support for high tech then go ahead. If you just want to get in a plug for IG then then go do that on the IG forms.

[covered in blue]

He is . Thank you

[Hopeful someday]

Very supportive arnt you!
Read my post, is it in anyway unsympathetic or nasty?!
Calling me a troll straight off for pointing out they we right and actually if they hadn't pointed it out laurie could be out stocking up on girly items and painting rooms....yes I guess they had 50/50 shot of getting but so did your husband "the expert" who also got her hopes up wrongly it would seem
I was actually compelled to answer as I work in that field and it shocked me but if this is the kind of attitude of members then I will try a different site thanks

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My mistake. Sorry I just thought that seeing it was your first post then you must have come from IG to make Laurie feel bad and she's already had enough of that. If you genuinely are looking at swaying or HT then Welcome .

[Laurie1161]

Did kind of sound like a "told you so" at the beginning hopefully . Thanks for your reply , the lady's on here have helped me through this difficult time , everyone of them have been very supportive and kind!!!. And even the ones who thought boy with my scan were very sensitive about it. I don't know how many others have had this experience with the company but the people I know have had correct gender from them , I must just be the unlucky one . I'm putting it down to a bad experience and if I ever want to find out the gender with other babies I will be waiting till 20 weeks.

[Hopeful someday]

Fair enough, I'll be honest I am a member on ingender, I've come here as my identity is well know and rather then be hounded for guesses as can happen- in the nicest possible way, I appreciate people are desperate to know. I wanted to talk with people about my plans and worries etc without it just being oh sorry but can you take a look...... A little escape if my own if you will
I do have a lot of respect for the ladies there and they are very good at what they do, however I've not seen your post there so can't comment on that.
Again I wish you the very best, I strongly advise though that you write a review about the place you went to as it really is unacceptable and to not offer "potty" shots just sounds unreal to me? That's the whole point of the visit to get confirmed gender. I hope it can be put to rest at your 20wk scan and you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy, you do have beautiful sons

[Laurie1161]

I don't know if you saw the other lady's comment on here , who went to the same place as me in glasgow and didn't get any potty shots and they told her the same thing but gave her a rescan. My aunt was in in Sunday for the gender scan and she never got any either. They claim to be 97% accurate, I know mistakes scan happen it's not the mistake that's upset me it's the techs saying oh I'm not allowed to say 100% but yes I'm very certain after me telling her I thought it was a boy and asking her to check and check . We can't trust any tech now after this , my dh said he won't even trust the hospital tech. I think I'll do a bit of research to find out if anyone els has had this trouble with them. Thanks they are wee darlings

[Laurie1161]

Ps escape here it's good , everyone is so lovely.

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Anyone know if there is a way to see all the unread threads and those with new reply on here? (except the few on the right). I have to keep searching this thread! My obsessive boy nature doesn't like that lol.

I'm very aware that DH was wrong and I do feel bad about that. I never ask him anyway. I like to guess myself, but this time I did. People are human you know. They make mistakes but I've apologized and also I've stuck around and tried to be supportive. Hindsight is a wonderful thing you know xxx

[Mrs_Incredible]

Covered in blue - I think from the sounds of the rescan, that this baby isn't wanting to reveal gender and is a hard one to call, even for the tech doing the live scan (if I read it right even at the rescan they thought girl initially - but Laurie didn't rate this tech at all) xx

(it was kind of you to get your dh's input btw)