how to increase odds of conception ttc girl

[Mrs_Incredible]

Deaks I think its the added stress trying to pinpoint O+12, along with a higher chance of missing the egg and wasting a month on le/exercise. Xx
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[deaks66]

Yes that was definately true of my previous swaying days but there is something different this time round...im actually scared of getting pg... so if it doesnt happen i wont be stressed iykwim? im in no rush to get pg and hear boy

Deaks I think its the added stress trying to pinpoint O+12, along with a higher chance of missing the egg and wasting a month on le/exercise. Xx
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[Mrs_Incredible]

Well I was the same! Bought my plan nov 2012 and first attempt was 12 mths later xx


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[atomic sagebrush]

I know

So atomic, do u feel o+12 is unnecessary or is it just that it makes conception more difficult? I was hoping for a single attempt at o+12-20 simply because I have 3 x ov day boys and Im petrified to let dh near me on ov!

In that case you may as well take a birth control pill.

O+12 does not work, it doesn't sway, it makes it impossible to get pregnant when done correctly (it is biologically impossible that people are getting pregnant with it - REALLY. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...9-no-12-a.html) and the ONLY reason it has ever appeared to do anything is because one attempt sways so strongly pink. WE are getting great results with one attempt, regardless of the day of conception. I got my daughter from one attempt late at night (ovulated some time the next day) classic Shettles boy timing.

So why not have one attempt when you actually have a chance to conceive??? Any time before ovulation, you are at least in with a chance. If you go for O+20 (and actually manage to DO it, which is highly doubtful because it is impossilbe to pinpoint ovulation like that without an ultrasound machine) you have utterly no chance of conceiving. at least with a cutoff you have a chance.

[atomic sagebrush]

Deaks I think its the added stress trying to pinpoint O+12, along with a higher chance of missing the egg and wasting a month on le/exercise. Xx
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yes yes let's not overlook the "swaycession" factor - in order to do O+12 you have to practically go nutty monitoring and watching and getting all worked up for having this perfectly timed attempt...TERRIBLE for pink. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...ypothesis.html

[deaks66]

In that case you may as well take a birth control pill.

O+12 does not work, it doesn't sway, it makes it impossible to get pregnant when done correctly (it is biologically impossible that people are getting pregnant with it - REALLY. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...9-no-12-a.html) and the ONLY reason it has ever appeared to do anything is because one attempt sways so strongly pink. WE are getting great results with one attempt, regardless of the day of conception. I got my daughter from one attempt late at night (ovulated some time the next day) classic Shettles boy timing.

So why not have one attempt when you actually have a chance to conceive??? Any time before ovulation, you are at least in with a chance. If you go for O+20 (and actually manage to DO it, which is highly doubtful because it is impossilbe to pinpoint ovulation like that without an ultrasound machine) you have utterly no chance of conceiving. at least with a cutoff you have a chance.

I do honestly get what you are saying but... I guess I have a mental block and after what I've been through I just can't get past it. You know what perhaps I need to hang up my baby days altogether.

[deaks66]

I disagree though I understand I am in the minority! My ov stops and starts and I can't be sure of anything except I know when it's over. If I try to have one attempt I will get it totally wrong and end up attempting again. If I wait for o+12 (which I can finally pinpoint) I won't mess up by having to have more attempts.

[atomic sagebrush]

Is bding every 4 days a bit more boy friendly as its more than one attempt? (This may be a silly question but im tired lol)

no not silly at all, yes it is perhaps a bit more boy friendly than one attempt with some other frequency pattern. It's not because it's more than one attempt in fertile window (it is REALLY tough to get pg from 4 days before ovulation) but because having regular sex may make your husband's sperm health better (sways blue) and also becaue regular exposure to the hormones in his semen may make you more boy-friendly.

Those concerns may be countered, though, by the fact that it's less of a cause of "swaycession" to DTD every 4 days - you dont' have to constantly think about it, peeing on OPK, worried about when to DTD - you just go for it every 4 days and eventually you're going to get pg. Plus, it helps people get pg sooner and prevents the whole deal where people sway too strictly, end up stopping ovulation, and pretty much have to sway blue just in order to get pg at all.

As to which is better- that is a crystal ball questions I simply cannot answer.

[atomic sagebrush]

So are u saying don't go the every four days route unless it's the last resort?


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not necesarily last resort and there are a great many people who should start off doing it (such as anyone over 40) I think it's going to prove to be very effective, just that if you want the absolutely best of the best sway in every way, it isn't that. There ARE more strict things you could do. I do think it's a great way to get a girl, though, and it worked for me!

[atomic sagebrush]

so essentially my one off attempt at o+12 would be a good thing providing sperm catch egg? and if it doesnt the 4 day rule would be next best so as to catch egg but still sway girl with the one attempt?

No, because the "swaycession" inherent in going for O+12 sways blue and you may end up going on for so long not getting pregnant, that you end up depleting your body TOO much and have to relax on diet just in order to get pregnant at all.

If you really aren't in a hurry to get pregnant, I think the best way to do it is by being strict in OTHER ways, such as frequency patterns, jelly, antihistamines - I don't think they are doing a whole lot, but they are inhibiting odds of conception by a lot!