Uk ladies

[motherofboys]

If she'd held off just 2 more hours it would have been today and I'd have been able to say I'd made it to 10 dpo. So close though. I guess increase is a good sign.


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[motherofboys]

What's going on with af, I get a little longer lp, and usually as my lp increases my af gets heavier. This time it's really light. It's cd4, but cd1 was mostly spotting. Cd2 was light. Cd3 was mostly spotting and cd4 is almost gone, occasionally spotting.


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[foxymrsg]

Sorry you got AF! Wonder why it's so light? Sometimes I get that though Exocet it to be heavy and it seems to be so light I wonder if I'd imagined it!

Lol about turning the heating god how cool would that be! Lol

[motherofboys]

I don't know if maybe it's because the hormones are trying to level out so I can get a full 2ww, and it wants to start but is also trying to hold off. Who knows. I guess I shouldn't moan really. Better light than heavy, doesn't feel as yuck lol


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[motherofboys]

I'm having a hard time again. They seem to be getting more frequent. I have a history of depression and I think I can feel it creeping in again. Just nothing seems to be right, and the fact I don't have a girl, and can't see it ever happening just makes it all SO much worse. I was asked today if I'd have any more babies, I usually give the answer of "I don't know yet, but I'm not ruling it out" or along those lines. So I said that. She said "hmm do you still want a girl?" STILL? Where has the still come from? I never told you I wanted a girl and I don't know you well enough to even think about confiding those feelings.

[foxymrsg]

People are morons, sorry but they are they think they know what we think, feel and want! Even though we do want girls (or boys) we don't necessarily go round telling everyone but everyone thinks that we must want the opposite to what we have. I would say ignore her but I know that's easier said than done! ((((Hugs))))

[motherofboys]

She just looked at me like 'yeah whatever' and changed the subject.


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[motherofboys]

Bloody dh one minute I think he is going to pull the plug on ttc all together because he doesn't even mention another child at all in the future. Now he won't stop talking about a girl. "Look at this bed, this is good if you had a girl" "look at all that girl stuff...imagine having a girl and having to do girl things" I'd rather not think about it any more. I still want it, but I know that's not what will happen for us so I would rather just think about the boy we will have and be ok with that, than let myself imagine what it would be like with a girl and have it be twice as hard to accept when I don't get her.
I know everyone will say there's always a chance and you never know. But I don't even want to hope right now.


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[Mrs_Incredible]

I felt exactly the same hon. Me and dh were convinced of a boy this time. I had 1% hope for a girl and even then i wouldn't give it more than a minute of head space. Hugs x

[motherofboys]

I know it's possible to get a girl after 4 boys, I just don't believe it can happen to me. And if I just accept that it will be easier in the long run.



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