TTC BLUE in October?

[jmomof3girls]

Yogi-
Keep telling DH that he could finally have his boy
I'm on hold for my sway. My DD2 is having surgery on her eyes in December. I don't want to be PG when she has it because I get extreme nausea.

[jmomof3girls]

Jana, the last 4 temps excluding this morning were all taken later in the day due to sleeping after night shift. There is still a minimal chance but the sore back I am experiencing is telling me af is around the corner. Af is officially due in two days (Monday for me). I won't be testing anymore this cycle. Plus, I am all out of tests and no money to buy more.

I still hope it will work outs out but if not, is DH willing to give it another try for this month?

[jmomof3girls]

Business woman- how many tests did you take on day 17?

[yogi&booboo]

Boysway I am supper bummed, and of course we had the same issue as we did last time around. He was too nervous last night and was not able to perform. I am bummed because he was doing great before he said he knew and now we go back to his old ways

Business Woman,
My hunny is actually better off not knowing. I've been ttc for almost a year now and during the time he has known, we have had issues with our attemps during my fertile window. When we are not ttc he can go up to three times in two days. I am lucky to get one in the window when he knows. 😕He gets nervous and is not able to concentrate 😩

[yogi&booboo]

Awww Jana I understand your reason for holding off. I don't blame you with the Nausea. I have it severe when I am preggo and cannot function without meds Wishing your dd a safe surgery amd speedy recovery 😙

[jmomof3girls]

I get it so bad that I can't function either and my doctors never give me anything
I've noticed that is a common problem with men. Does your DH want another baby?

[Boysway]

Business woman, do you have any idea of when you usually ovulate? You may have begun using your OPK's too late. For example, my O date often changes (from CD15-21) so I start using my OPK's from CD 14. I try to take them twice a day. Once around 10 am if possible and the other around 3pm. You are best to hold off from drinking fluids or going to the toilet for three hours before using an OPK.

Bugger yogi That's half of my dh's problem, the pressure. The only reason I'm thinking of telling dh is because he uses the Viagra now so the pressure to perform is off. He also needs 30 mins notice so he can take a tablet. Unfortunately, dh's problems are a little deeper then just the performance anxiety. If your dh doesn't have any bp issues, is that something he might consider just while you're TTC? Have you massage beforehand? I unfortunately know all too well how frustrating it is

Jana, we'll be trying again next month. Dh actually said we'll get more tries in next time which shocked me. Poor dh saw how upset I was. I tried not to be but the tears kept coming. Temp is still below the coverline this morning.

[Boysway]

I'm definitely out. On to next cycle for me. Fertile week between 28th Sept and the 3rd of October.

[jmomof3girls]

That sucks boysway! That's great if he's willing to get more attempts in because that increases your chances for a boy!! Keep me posted!

[yogi&booboo]

Boysway my dh has high bp, high cholesterol and diabetes so that has alot to do with it. The dh's m.d. already prescribed him Viagra but his insurance does not cover it so that is not an option. However he is taking these natural ones which help a lot. He does not have any issues of performance when we are not ttc but since two days ago its been terrible. He wants to soo bad and poor thing looses his concentration. I feel bad for him more than anything.

Jana, I did not know about nausea meds inside my last pregnancy. I was given the nausea meds they give cancer patients. The dh is who wanted to have another baby and because if his decision we started to ttc again. He really wants it desperately