When to BD? OPK or peak ewcm

[SpicyTunaSushi]

I always wanted a girl, but for my dh's sake (who loves his girls), I felt like I wanted to give him a boy. I still feel that way- but we will see.

[jmomof3girls]

Very true! Is your DH on board with swaying?

[SpicyTunaSushi]

Totally on board! He did the IG style diet for DD2, very strictly. He has had some bad back issues which explains the gap between our mc and now, but I realized that eventually, we just had to try (and he really had improved). I am not sure if his sperm count is what it was when I conceived in 2013, but I am sure it is good enough. We conceive pretty easily on the cycles I have lots of ewcm.

[timi10]

I am with you all!! blue to your way!

[jmomof3girls]

Any updates yet timi10?

[timi10]

Thanks for asking, wow! nothing, to be honest, i am really diappointed as today I had a routine scan at the local hospital, and the sonographer didnt even bother giving me a pic of the baby. I had been so looking forward to today's scan, hoping to see a nub, but I saw nothing , she only went dont to the genital area once for a few seconds, and I saw no nub my husband is a trained nub expert LOL (no not really just watches me being here a lot, and he saw nothing either. ) I hope it doesnt mean anything related to gender On thursday I'll have my NT scan I am 13w that day. FX for a good pic!

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok! We dtd last night, digi smiley this morning, of course. So, I'll try to fit in a bd tonight. I thought it was 3x within the +opk, but honestly, I don't think my DH could pull that off with his back issues (which are mostly resolved, but we don't want to re-injure!)

That's only because so many people have Shettles paranoia. I think 3-5 attempts in fertile window (before, during, and after OPK) is great for blue.

[jmomof3girls]

I can't wait to see it timi10!

[jmomof3girls]

That's only because so many people have Shettles paranoia. I think 3-5 attempts in fertile window (before, during, and after OPK) is great for blue.

I've noticed that us blue swayers have are very concerned with timing. It took me months to accept that timing doesn't sway. I'm finally at peace with it! LOL!!!!

[SpicyTunaSushi]

BFP at 10 DPO! First month! Thanks for all your help! the HD diet is definitely fertility friendly, if anything, I had amazing EWCM and conceived quickly both sways (first one ended in MC).