TTC BLUE in October?

[business.woman]

Today i have EWCM and we didnt dtd yet!!
Its so soon though i thought i will have it by tomorrow or saturday
Shall i start dtd today skip friday and dtd sat , sun & mon?

[yogi&booboo]

Are you doing the smep plan Business Woman?
I have been bd'ing every other day. I started to see my watery cm since yesterday. Still no ewcm.

[jmomof3girls]

Tm29- I'm sorry it didn't work out this time. I think if it doesn't work soon that you might want to consider the Clomid. Lots of women get bfn the first try though, I wouldn't be too hard on yourself!!

[business.woman]

Yep yogi , i wanna dtd on fertile window only

[yogi&booboo]

Then you should start dtd at positive opk. Give or take two days at ewcm you should have a +opk tomorrow or early saturday morning

[business.woman]

Great ! Thnx yogi!

[sageviolet]

Sorry, tm! Even if everything goes right, you still only have a 20% chance each cycle. I wouldn't worry until you've been trying for at least 6 months unless you're near menopause and might need some help. And I would stay away from Clomid since that sways girl. There are other things you can try. Last cycle was a flop for us, so this time we tried Preseed. I don't know if it worked yet, but I'll know by next week!

[tm29]

Sorry, tm! Even if everything goes right, you still only have a 20% chance each cycle. I wouldn't worry until you've been trying for at least 6 months unless you're near menopause and might need some help. And I would stay away from Clomid since that sways girl. There are other things you can try. Last cycle was a flop for us, so this time we tried Preseed. I don't know if it worked yet, but I'll know by next week!

Thanks sageviolet and business.woman and Jana - so, so much appreciated. I was on clomid 50 last time. My dr says he thinks I could do it without - but Atomic thinks I'll neutralise the pink effects of clomid with diet/pre-seed/robitussin. I 'm really undecided and I HAVE TO DECIDE TODAY! I could risk not taking clomid but I'm afraid I won't ovulate without it. Then I'll have to take it the next month anyway. Ugh. The dr did say I could choose either way. He says I don't need the clomid, but this is my first aF in 5 months after stopping BF my daughter so I don't have total confidence in my body!

Anyone? What would you do? Risk not O'ing at all this month? But avoid possible pink effects of clomid? As Atomic says, if clomid really swayed a lot, people would take it just to guarantee a girl.

[jmomof3girls]

It depends on how fast you want to get pregnant. If you're in a hurry, I would take the Clomid. If you're willing to give yourself a few months to try without it, I would probably do that first. If I was you, I would give it a try naturally 1 more month naturally and if I got a bfn I would try the Clomid. You can balance out the Clomid with your boy sway tactics! Good luck.

[True Blue]

I read here a lot without posting but tm I just wanted to say give your body a chance, there is nothing to say you won't ovulate next month I understand it's your first O since BF'ing but your body may well be back on track now. Try one more month and if you don't ovulate try the Clomid then.