December 2WW

[XXforhubby]

Hang in there Keepthefaith!! You are not out until AF shows up! I think there is no easy way. We test early- get a BFN. We wait for AF- she shows up on time or late. After four months and five cycles ttcing, I now am testing a few days after AF should arrive. Last month I tested 12dpo, which was 3 days before AF was due and had a chemical. Now I want to be blissfully ignorant and think AF was late because of late ovulation.

GL! FX for you!!


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[keepthefaith]

[QUOTE=XXforhubby;661890]Hang in there Keepthefaith!! You are not out until AF shows up! I think there is no easy way. We test early- get a BFN. We wait for AF- she shows up on time or late. After four months and five cycles ttcing, I now am testing a few days after AF should arrive. Last month I tested 12dpo, which was 3 days before AF was due and had a chemical. Now I want to be blissfully ignorant and think AF was late because of late ovulation.

Thanks xx makes sense, wish so much hadn't done it! Think this whole ttc thing is harder than I thought! Also struggling to stay focused on Le diet and exercise though I am doing it, just don't feel as motivated. Prob time of year doesn't help!

[XXforhubby]

I would take things one day at a time. If you cheat or skip exercise, there is always tomorrow! Remember, it is not what happens in a day but the overall picture! It gets easier over time. I always allow myself 2 pity days a cycle- the first 2 days AF comes. I don't worry about diet or exercise- I don't go whole hog though! Then I pick myself up by the boot straps and get strict again. This has helped me a lot.

My hope is that we all get our BFPs soon- so we can celebrate together!! ❤️❤️


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[keepthefaith]

Really hope so xx

[maidentomother]

Hang in there KtF - seems lots of pink swayers get late implanters so you're not out yet.

I really agree with XX, swaying is best taken day by day, even hour by hour, even though it's the big picture that matters. If you have a cheat - mandatory every now and then - enjoy it and then move on to being strict again. I know easier said than done but I have found it helps me too to have such an attitude. Plus, the diet needs to be tolerable - that's more important than stressing about perfection. But I know that you've been doing a great job on the whole with your sway, KtF. Just keep it up.

[keepthefaith]

Hang in there KtF - seems lots of pink swayers get late implanters so you're not out yet.

I really agree with XX, swaying is best taken day by day, even hour by hour, even though it's the big picture that matters. If you have a cheat - mandatory every now and then - enjoy it and then move on to being strict again. I know easier said than done but I have found it helps me too to have such an attitude. Plus, the diet needs to be tolerable - that's more important than stressing about perfection. But I know that you've been doing a great job on the whole with your sway, KtF. Just keep it up.

Thanks appreciate it xx

[Grace]

Keepthefaith- don't despair! I got a BFN on 12dpo, and then waited till the day after AF was due and got my BFP.

[Ugee]

Ok so I'm gobsmaked! I've got very faint BFP's (took 3 different type tests) I am only 9dpo so it could all come crashing down and be a chemical. I tested today instead of tomorrow as some friends are coming over tonight and was going to have mulled wine. I'm unsure how to feel to be honest.

[sageviolet]

Congrats, Ugee!!! FX for a sticky bean!

[XXforhubby]

Ugee- let yourself be excited! There is a good chance it won't be a chemical. Be in the moment.

So I'll be your cheerleader: OMG- you got a BFP!!!! Yay!!!!! Yes I am jumping up and down for you right now!!!

❤️❤️❤️


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