Uk ladies

[hopper]

Hi ladies, I've been awol for a long time. I found myself getting a little obsessed so took a step back. We have had to push ttc #3 back several times now but hoping that talking to women in the same mindframe as me will help how I'm feeling. I bought a personalised plan when I first joined but my subscription expired. Any idea how I can access that info again or would I need to buy a new sway plan when we plan on TTC? Had a dream last night I was pg with a baby girl, couldn't help waking up disappointed

[foxymrsg]

Bless you! Welcome back! Not sure on personlised plan but I'm sure if you DM NBP or AS they'll help you. I am going to purchse my plan in the next couple of days I am so excited and looking forward to getting started! We won't TTC until early next year but it gives me time to get into the groove!
MOB I am the same eating what I love! I have noticed though that since I have been on this website and started the diet last time I have stopped snacking so hoping that will help. I also drink more wine too! But that could be due to having 2 kids not the website! lol! No but seriously I never used to drink at home but now I enjoy a glass of wine once the kids are in bed, not every night but probably averaging every other night! I'm hoping that'll help my sway when the time comes!

[True Blue]

Hi hopper welcome back and good luck with your sway I hope it all goes to plan for you this time.
Your personalized plan is yours to keep you lose your swaying support after 6 months but can purchase another 6 months if you would like to.
If you pm nuthinbutpink she will be able to help you find your personalized plan

[hopper]

Thanks ladies. I figured out the renewal for the support eventually lol. I will definitely buy it closer to sway time. Have spent the whole evening looking at posts on TTC pink and consulting due date calculators to see if we could manage to TTC sooner than anticipated. We are in the process of buying a house and its taking over every spare cent plus I have been asked to be maid of honour at my best friends wedding next September (2016) and with this much notice I could hardly be heavily pregnant at her wedding. I can feel the obsession begin again lol. It is just crazy that complete and utter broodiness can take over so easily.
Note to self - block access to Chinese gender predictors and due date calculators!! Haha.

[motherofboys]

all my pregnant friends are due their girls over the next few weeks. and another has announced shes pregnant with number 5 after 4 boys. its going to be a girl i just know it. I had to delete the ones i don't know that well from facebook. but one is my oldest friend she was posting about where to have baby today, and the other is ds3s friends mum and she was posting pics of the freshly decorated nursery today. I am so so jealous and heart broken. I've never been able to do a nursery let alone a pink one. we lived with MIL when ds1 was born and then moved to this house, where we are not allowed to paint the walls they are all white wood chip paper, and can't decorate anything so never been able to prepare anything like that.
i went to asda yesterday all the girls clothes and baby girls everywhere put me in an awful mood for the rest of the day and the whole of today.

[foxymrsg]

Aw hun i feel it so much for you. It hurst so much seeing everyone else getting what they desire! I think you've done the right thing by deleting off not so close people as you need to focus on yourself and your feelings. Someone I know is due soon with their DD and it's so hard seeing all the pics of beautiful clothes etc. Think of it this way if your friend does have a DD after 4 DS's that doesn't lessen your chace of getting her, in fact if anything it just proves it can absolutley happen for you as well! Especially with this wonderful website! Thank goodness we have this place to come and vent too! ((((hugs))))

[motherofboys]

it makes me feel like the odds are against me, we can't both get girls after 4 boys. i don't feel so bad when its people on places like this, but people who haven't even swayed just makes me feel rubbish.
The big 3 boys had a massive fight tonight. They have been bickering endlessly all week from the moment they get up to walking into their classes at school then as soon as they come out of school to the minute they are asleep. They haven't been able to be in a room alone together, theres had to be one of us there or they've started arguing or winding each other up and that. And tonight it just came to a head. Its been a long long time since any of them had a proper fight with each other. The odd hit now and then but not like that. I feel utterly hopeless right now, about everything. And GD is just another thing thats making it all seem worse.
Sorry, theres very little places where I can vent this kind of stuff.
How are you doing anyway?

[foxymrsg]

That's what we are here for for you to vent as much as you need! I think it is so hard with the kids as they do get wound up, especially this time of year they are starting to get tired and ready for their 2 week Easter break! Know what you mean about people not swaying, why do they get it so easy and yet here we are having to struggle to get what we want. I think FB is the worst place as really makes you feel worse! I keep seeing everyone getting the DG they want and then getting it move house so easily! Right now the house move is proving to be nothing but a pain in the backside and causing us nothing but stress. Why do others just order their beautiful house and their pigeon pair and get it!?!? I'm feeling it with you today 100%!!

[motherofboys]

it does seem so unfair. i'm still waiting to move. i'm admin on a mummy group on facebook and i've nearly given up a couple of times because i just can not take it when people have girls, or even post scan pics and people guess girl (with no nub) or people say "i bet its a girl if you're being that sick" and i want to scream.

[hopper]

Oh mob I hope you are ok. I completely get what you mean about FB, it drives me nuts. A friend PMed me randomly on FB during the week to tell me she is having her first girl in June. I logged off the minute I saw it, it was just the straw that broke the camel's back I can't help how I feel at the minute but I hate feeling this way. Ttc can't come fast enough but on the other hand I am 100% terrified to sway and not get my DG. Of course I will love a third son if that is what's meant to be but I couldn't go on feeling like this forever and almost begrudging others their happiness! It's not who I am at all!!!