April 2WW

[True Blue]

Lol sc1411 @
EOD every other day

[smarston3]

Sc-good luck catching the egg!!
TayTum-blue dust to you!

Ok gals, we BD on Friday night. I've had EWCM yesterday and today. Had an almost positive on a FR ovulation stick at noon and just got a +OPK on an IC...would you girls BD tomorrow (Monday) 3 days since last BD. Or hold out until Tuesday (4 days). My concern is last month, I Oed on Monday and BD on Monday and didn't get pregnant. So, I'm afraid waiting until Tuesday will be too late. Yet, I don't want to undermind my entire sway by BDing too early. Any thoughts? Should we BD on Tuesday morning and "split the difference"? Or is that too risky?


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[HealthyGirl]

Oh god . Test again tonight and 2-3 times tomorrow and based on the opk result decide whether bd on Tuesday would be late or not.





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[mommymachine]

I think I personally would wait until Tuesday night to BD so it is a true 4 days. But it is a really tough call.

[smarston3]

Thanks girls, kinda wish that I didn't test..just stuck to the plan. Augh!


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[XXforhubby]

Times like these, flip a coin and go with it!i did that this cycle and got my BFP! Bding at positive opk wasn't working and Bding every four days wasn't working. I was nervous about going every three days, even though Atomic had mentioned it cycles ago. Tossed a coin, and we went for Bding every three days! I didn't look back! I'm glad I went for it, because I couldn't get a positive opk this cycle! I kept temping to confirm O, and I was going to ditch temping too!

Point of all this is flip a coin if you can't decide and stick with it! It helps the stress and you get an immediate answer, plus you can blame the coin if it doesn't work [emoji6]! Lol!


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[Junie]

smarston3- I would BD today. I think it can be so hard to know when your body is actually ovulating and I wouldn't want to miss out on a chance this cycle. Maybe compromise by BDing in the afternoon or evening. If you take an OPK this morning and it is lighter I would BD right away. Every 4 isn't worth it if your timing is so off that you can't get pregnant.

Ugh. OPK dark and definitely positive again today. Last night I had terrible cramps but no AF. I'm wondering if the high dosage of cortisone steroids is messing things up more than I thought it would. Well we BD last night so at least I don't have to worry about that for a few days and hopefully something happens with my temps to make everything more clear soon!

[maidentomother]

smarston, I would BD tomorrow. I'm actually the one who came up with the every 3 days idea and it's been working well so far.

I woke up to spotting, severe AF cramps and another temp drop. I just hope AF comes tomorrow not today bc I really can't handle an 8 day LP. At this point I'm convinced I'm not meant to have children with DF, and maybe that's a blessing in disguise. Wish me luck finding someone else!

[TaytumJ]

Smarston - good luck! I don't have any advice BDing for a girl, but I agree with XX, I use a coin to make almost all of my tough decisions! Usually if I do that, I know which way I want it to land ahead of time. [emoji6]

Junie - good luck! Hopefully today your temps are a lot clearer! I wish things were more predictable; that would help with swaying as well!

Maiden - ugh!! This hurt my heart to wake up and read this. Even after such a great chart. I agree through - from what we know about DF, this may be a sign that you were meant to look elsewhere. Are you taking a break this next cycle? I'll be thinking about you, take care of yourself today, and do something for you!

Got another BD in last night with a clearly negative OPK around 6:30 last night. Didn't have a great, convincing temp spike today though. We probably won't be able to BD again until tomorrow, but I hope temps keep going up!


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[XXforhubby]

Oh Maiden! I'm hoping AF stay away! I agree with you- I don't think DF is good for you. I've been wondering, since he stresses you out so much and has emotional outbursts if that is preventing a BFP. I know I should have gotten knocked up a few times with past BF's, but I didn't because the relationship was so destructive/dysfunctional that my body just couldn't perform normally. Although I never TTCed with any of them, I just had close calls or $h!t I forgot the pill moments!

I wish you luck finding someone else....or a surprise BFP this cycle [emoji8]!


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