Uk ladies

[foxymrsg]

Don't ever be sorry we're here together because we all understand! I think you need to sit him down for a heart to heart it's so hard to get the convo started but once it's started its amazing how much you can sometimes get them to open up!

[motherofboys]

I do. There's just so much going on that I feel like I'm being selfish to keep bringing this up and I'm scared of his answer. I don't know when the right time to talk about it is. I know he's worried and stressed about other things already and I feel like I'm adding to his problems.


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[foxymrsg]

Yes I'm the same with dh, I worry about adding to his stress problems but if they know were unhappy they get more stressed and don't know why. At least if he knows why you're unhappy he can decide. You're not asking for another one now but you need to know what the future holds.

[motherofboys]

Dh dad has been moved to a different hospital and no one thought they should bother telling us. Good thing he works with his sister or he'd have gone up there tonight and he wouldn't be there!


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[Mrs_Incredible]

That's awful. X


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[motherofboys]

I know. I'm so annoyed! His sister lives 2 doors away so why she couldn't tell us I don't know! He has been texting his brother asking how their dad is because we've both been unwell and his brother said not to go because they wouldn't let us in if we were ill, and all his brother says is "I'll let you know when I see him later" then doesn't let us know.


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[motherofboys]

I had to do the school run, i tried not to look at the baby too much, just said hi to her, thanked God for the wind as an excuse for ever so slightly watering eyes as I walked along behind them. Had to listen to everyone exclaiming how gorgeous she is and how lucky they are.
Trying to keep it all in and not break down tonight. Dh doesn't need me being like this right now


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[Mrs_Incredible]

Oh mob, so sorry you are hurting right now xx

[motherofboys]

Thanks. It's got to be ok one day right? Whatever happens, it's got to get better, hasn't it?
When we decided to stop ttc I felt ok and I thought I'd have the occasional dips into GD but they'd shorter and further between and not hurt as much, but they aren't. They are getting closer together and longer and worse.



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[foxymrsg]

Oh no that's awful about dh's dad! What is it with familes that they have to make everything hard work!?! Sorry to hear you're going through it at all angles right now. I so wish I could wave a wand and make it better for us all.
Well done you for seeing the baby though it's such a hard time but the first time is defo the hardest x