Due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2015

[Rosie85]

So happy it is all working out bura. Your dh sounds lovely!

[EmileeJane]

I'm glad he is over the moon! How cool. I think that when you see your sweet health baby on the scan you fall in love no matter what. Of course you may still have rough days. If I was just starting out again having kids, Id just love the thought of 3 girls! (I never had a desire for even one boy growing up)! I can't picture life without my boys now but, it's funny how you envision your life and how it actually turns out. Probably better then in our dreams!
Hope the rest of your pregnancy is smooth sailing bura!

[tarasue]

Sorry you didn't hear boy Bura! I hope you are doing alright. Congrats on your healthy girl.

So I caught up on past posts and it looks like A LOT of people are getting girls/their DG.
I ended up telling DH about the tech guessing girl and he was pretty excited. Although I'm now totally convinced there are few girls left! I can't possibly end up with my girl at this point. Like others have said someone has to have 3 boys or 3 of a kind!
Of course I'm not out yet. Just not so hopeful anymore. There just has to be some of us having boys since there are so many having girls.
I know I'll be okay with a 3rd boy just sad. I'll be getting my confirmation scan at 20 weeks around mid June and will let you all know.
Cheers to you all getting your DG, fingers crossed for anyone having their scans soon! Good luck.

I feel the same as you!! All these girls, someone has to have a boy and it's probably me.... That's ok I love my two boys and know I would love the third just as much. I have a sono scheduled for next Tuesday, I will be 12.5 weeks and hope to get a clue as to boy or girl. I am 100% convinced it will be my third little boy, but still have hope for a girl! But like you said, everyone is having girls, someone will have to break the streak....


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[Burakoam]

Having my first real bad day and need to vent..not sure this is really gender disappointment so i thought id share it here..

Im still sick, and im getting really really sick of vomitting every morning when i wake up. I wasnt this sick with the previous girls and while i know every pregnancy is different i feel cursed not blessed because i prayed and begged god for 7 months just to get pregnant this time and figured i was signing myself up for a couple months of puking hands down since it was in my previous pregnancies but i didnt expect this.

I hate pretty much all food except the stuff thats really really bad for trying to avoid developing gestational diabetes again. So in order to not be sick im constantly giving in to what DOES sound good like mcdonalds and ice cream and every fast food place around here. my absolute biggest concern is all of the pasta ive been eating knowing that was a big trigger for the Gestational diabetes last pregnancy but i cant stop.

I didnt want another girl. It doesnt change how much i love this baby because my god i love her so much but WHY 3 daughters? the odds werent even in my favor to have 3 girls..the statistical odds to have 3 daughters in a row are something like 22% and i guess those odds should make me feel blessed but instead im back to feeling cursed. I had to delete a friend of mine that recently had a baby boy..hes a month old...between that baby and my daughters half brother im going out of my mind with sadness. not necessarily envy because i am pregnant and it is my husbands baby, girl or not but im so freaking sad. Im sick, and im sad, and im tired..and im not even halfway done with this pregnancy.

im sure i sound whiny and ungrateful and im sorry. i just had to have a place i could put this and facebook was definitely not the place and nobody in my family seems to understand and my husband would just die if he knew how i feel today. For the most part since saturday ive been really good you know? slight shock at most i thought but maybe it was more than just slight shock and that shock is what kept me from fully 'feeling' what im feeling today. Maybe my hormones are just running crazy and between those and the sickness im over reacting and this isnt how i really feel at all..

the truth is im not even sure this is gender disappointment so much as it is being sick of being sick and being sick of pregnant...this pregnancy has just absolutely kicked my ass, and i was not prepared for it at all. My other pregnancies werent easy either but this is like a whole new level of 'this sucks'. Once i take my vitamins for the night i have to go to sleep or i end up puking my guts out and puking them all up. im so sick some nights that i cant even take my iron and then pay for it the next two days in the form of lethargy and breathlessness

[Rosie85]

Nothing wrong with venting bura. Its hard to deal with all of those emotions. Starting out i wanted exactly what you have 3 girls. I didnt want boys at all. Haha. It is hard to not get what you want. Of course you are happy baby is healthy and you love her but you have the right to be sad and disappointed. You also are so so sick and i think that is mostly what it is bothering you. I truly hope it gets better soon.

[Burakoam]

Thank you rosie...your response helped more than you know... I think i unintentionally lied to my DH because i an starting to think another pregnancy ever would absolutely kill me even if it was 10 years from now... I think i will just hope quietly in the back of my mind that he will be content with the 3 daughters we have. Rosie i am praying so hard you get your girl even if you are okay either way.. You definitely deserve her. Funny that fate seems to have its own ideas for fair indeed and we are pretty much in the opposite positions with eachother from what we wanted.

[EmileeJane]

I agree I think a lot has to do with being so sick. When. You feel like garbage anything else you have that may be bugging you is absolutely intensified! It's hard to handle any extra drag when you're physically and emotionally drained.
Sorry you get that sick when pregnant! Anyone would agree that that would be hard to handle . And finding out you didn't get your DG is still so fresh. So take it easy on yourself. Of course you love your sweet baby, it takes time to adjust to what your new plans and path may look like.
Like Rosie I'd totally dig 3 girls and think you are pretty lucky, especially statistically speaking, like you said.
I am also craving McDonald's and normally I'd eat it once a yr!
Hugs lady♡

[Rosie85]

Hope things are looking up today bura. Glad my words could help a bit. When i was told ds3 was a boy i was in a dark place but now i am sooooo in love with him. I just couldnt imagine lifw without him. Proof that your baby will be loved. Its just that dang nagging hole in your heart of your missing gender. Doesn't mean you dont love dd3...you just desire ds1 and wonder about him. Nothing wrong with that at all. If i end up with ds4 there will always be a small hole in my heart for dd1 but i will surely love ds4 to a bazillion pieces.

[Burakoam]

today wasnt as bad as yesterday...struggling a bit hormones/emotions wise but thats because i think im overloading my already fragile pregnant mind. We were going to move to texas in june but plans got pushed back to november after baby arrives...i have stuff packed up and i refuse at this point to unpack it so i feel like the last two days has been a giant temper tantrum from me...poor DH..lol

Thank you Rosie and Emilee...both of you brought tears to my eyes. I still worry about that dumb glucose test but hell at the rate im going i may not even be able to take it because i'll throw up the drink and they will make me redo it until they realize im just going to keep throwing it up lol...that stuff sits hard in my stomach even in my other pregnancies where at that point i wasnt sick...

Keeping in mind statistical rarities...maybe this due date club will just be loaded 100% with girl babies..sure it doesnt happen often but to say it has never happened...well i dont believe it. Heres to any other pink dreamers getting their dream this pregnancy too.

[Rosie85]

Oh what a mess to be in the process of moving! How stressful...i get not wanting to unpack it though. Yuck. Where in Texas are you moving?! I might be moving there as well if hubby gets his promotion there.

Are you the only boy swayer bura? I cant remember. ..if you are then yes i hope everyone else has girls. That would be crazy if our thread was all girls. I have never gotten sick from the glucose stuff but it is gross and i def dont look forward to it at all. Hopefully you can keep yours down!