Bleedig on day 13 of cycle? edit: period late or pregnant?!

[atomic sagebrush]

Anything is possible but it's not super likely. More likely is that you're just normalizing thanks to the Vit. D and the iron and you'll get AF CD 28-32. Or, conversely, you may not have Oed yet at all and are looking at a longer than normal cycle and still haven't Oed.

Did you notice any O type symptoms around when you had your oopsy?? I tend to think most of us here on the site are pretty knowledgeable about when we might be Oing and would see EWCM or have some symptoms, so if you had no symptoms, I'd feel ok with the likelihood you are prob. not pg.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you! Yes I was sure I had my ovulation before the spotting, as I've always been regular and feel my ovulation and get ecwm. Of course not for sure, but I've never had a reason to doubt the obvious fertile signs of my body. So when I was bleeding I didn't think it was anything weird. But it is weird I'm not getting my period, right? With my youngest son I tested positive 9 days after ovulation. And we did not have sex around my ovulation, only on day 20 or 21 of my cycle. I just really hope my ovulation didnt come very late this time. But I fear all i can do is wait and hope for the best...

Well, getting your period so quickly is kind of weird too LOL. So it may be just a different "flavor"of the same problem, if that makes sense. If hormones are wacky, they can be wacky in a variety of ways.

[atomic sagebrush]

You told your doctor you were having blind spots and have history of thrombosis, and s/he told you to come back in a week?? Get a second opinion!

FWIW though, I have the hormonal migraines and see the spots, but don't really get the bad headaches. THey don't last but an hour or two though. I am worried about you, I think you need another opinion.

[Dana-Alicia]

Thanks AS. I had loads of EWCM on day 10, 11 and 12 and some spotting on day 13. So i was convinced I had O'ed. I don't temp or take O tests, but I had no reason to doubt my symptoms. I had that typical thicker yellowish cm after that, which for me is an indication O has come and gone and AF will show up. So i was waiting and then... nothing. I was so sure I was not fertile when we oopsied and I still am sure. Looking back there was no sign. My DH did say that I felt more dry than usual and my cervix was shaped like a hard funnel. It still is today. But then again, since DH never gets so go in without a condom, it could be that he just noticed a difference because of that. I'm getting a little worried about thrombosis and blind spots, is there a connection? I googled it, but have no other symptoms. I will call another doctor now. Thanks!

[Dana-Alicia]

I'm going to see a different doctor in 2 hours, his assistent was not happy about the blind spots. My blood may be to thick?

[Dana-Alicia]

The other doctor did some extra checks and mainly focussed on my eyes because I have a specific type of rheumatism that can cause iris infections. But all seemed well. She discussed it with a colleague and he also had a look (name thrombosis and every doctor gets super serious, she was in training still so she had everything double checked), but everything appears normal. About my long cycle, she said that just happens sometimes and she doesn't think I'm pregnant or it would have come up in the tests now. She suggested I get my hcg levels tested, but would only get the results on monday and by then I should also detect it in my urine also. Guess its just a major waiting game for me now and if the blurred vision comes back I must phone again. She didn't think something was up with my hormones. I'm going to try the PCOS diet to try and balance my hormones and she said that would be a good idea, so will give that a try and see if I feel better.

[maidentomother]

Fx for you hun, I hope you figure everything out. I'm so glad you got fully checked out bc those are scary symptoms. I have Rheumatism too but never knew it could affect eyes!

Do you chart, even just CM? I'd love to take a peek. I'm hopeless without being able to see things visually.

[Dana-Alicia]

Thanks hun! Not sure if it can affect the eyes with all rheumatic illnesses, but I know it does with mine. My mom has the same disease and she's had iris infections twice now. She said the pain was worse than anything, so I bet that's not it for me as I don't have pain. It's just so strange, still no AF, day 31 now. And still negative tests, so am slowly letting go of the fear that I might be pregnant. Big relief! Of course I want another bubs, but not like this, not now. Oh and I don't chart, was planning on doing it as soon as AF starts. But maybe it makes sense to start now anyway? Regardless of AF showing up?

[atomic sagebrush]

ANY time you see spots it can mean things like a stroke which you'd have a higher risk of with the thrombosis. I'm glad you got checked and everything seemed ok but don't rest on your laurels if anything seems weird then go back!

[Dana-Alicia]

Oh that is so scary! I actually worried if I could be having a stroke at the time, so I did some tests with myself like lifting my arms at the same time and walking in a straight line. Everything seemed fine, but I'll be on my guard!