DH can't "keep it cool" what can help?

[Hobbermittens]

I don't have A/C, so at least you have that going for you! I am just hoping we get snow soon ( sometimes we do by the end of Sept.). Until then, I hope it starts to cool down!

[gizmo77]

snow in sept???

[Hobbermittens]

snow in sept???

Some years! Last year we were lucky, and fall was wonderful. It stayed nice until Halloween. But most years by Halloween, there is snow on the ground. The year my son was born, the temp on Halloween was in the single digits, so we didn't even take him out.

[SpicyTunaSushi]

It doesn't make sense to me to ice DH right before BD. Ideally, you should be icing all the time, as sperm is always being produced- and it is in a particular stage of spermatogenesis that temperature is important. The last portion is the most temperature resistant- so heat doesn't matter.

So when DH has a fever (like mine), the affect isn't seen right away- but your following cycle as motility and count are decreased. I think you should encourage DH to ice regularly, sleep in the nude, and no hot baths.

[atomic sagebrush]

It doesn't make sense to me to ice DH right before BD. Ideally, you should be icing all the time, as sperm is always being produced- and it is in a particular stage of spermatogenesis that temperature is important. The last portion is the most temperature resistant- so heat doesn't matter.

So when DH has a fever (like mine), the affect isn't seen right away- but your following cycle as motility and count are decreased. I think you should encourage DH to ice regularly, sleep in the nude, and no hot baths.

Thank you Spicy!! Great info.

My thinking is that icing is not necessary and it's probably enough just to keep the boys relatively cool as often as you can (cool showers, sleeping in boxers, etc). No need to torture the poor guy!!! The exception might be when he does have an actual fever and the heat is coming from the inside out!!

[atomic sagebrush]

snow in sept???

The other year where I live (near Idaho) it snowed on June 14th for four hours and then it snowed in Sept too. That year kinda sucked!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

What can I do if we live in this damn heat? I just hope that Sept. is already a boy friendly month. But again it may not even matter in FL.
He is taking lot's of sups some of that for repair sperms and higher sperm count and also the "green" sups.
I can't do nothing else just hope it works.

I think you just do as much as you can do, first to keep things cool and secondly to help up the sperm numbers/quality in other ways so they are better able to withstand the heat.

[Flava]

We never have snow here and it's only cooler maybe in Dec.and Jan. and Feb.
Also I didn't think to ice right before .But I guess I can ask him to start now so he can do it every night a little bit . And it's more like a cool down...we don't put ice on him lol but get a ice pack and wrap in a towel and just hold it there for a while .With his pants on lol so not hurting at all .
Like I said he can't sleep nude but he got only a boxer on . And he don't take baths just shower.

[atomic sagebrush]

Your DH is really cooperative! Hug him extra tight (only avoiding the nut region!!)

[Hobbermittens]

It doesn't make sense to me to ice DH right before BD. Ideally, you should be icing all the time, as sperm is always being produced- and it is in a particular stage of spermatogenesis that temperature is important. The last portion is the most temperature resistant- so heat doesn't matter.

So when DH has a fever (like mine), the affect isn't seen right away- but your following cycle as motility and count are decreased. I think you should encourage DH to ice regularly, sleep in the nude, and no hot baths.

Okay, I am confused. If sperm is always being produced, what's the 72 days thing? I mean, if only some are fully formed NOW, where are the rest of them hanging out at their different stages of development? I think I need a biology lesson.

My son was conceived in December. I am now wondering if this is a better way to go for me, since DH is outside all the time, and his "boys" would be cooler if we waited a month or two? Maybe I should switch my attempt to November??

Also, I am thinking about the people I know with hot tubs, and most of them have GIRLS! I bet that's why.