Feel low and almost ready to give up hope

[Beautifulrainbow]

I'm feeling low because I started planning to ttc girl in July months ago now started eating girl diet, doing research, taking some suppliments, trying to track my cycles but it's all gone down the pan as I'm af has gone missing, I'm on cycle day 78 this is the longests time my cycle has been except for just before I found out I was expecting my 1st.
I have been to see doc, she ran test and cannot find anything wrong!
I'm 100% not pregnant! I don't think its stress or losing as that's never affected them before, I fell pg with my 3rd when I wasn't eating and under extreme stress. Been testing with opks and have not had a positive test yet?
I'm thinking that going back on bc then stopping with make me have an af and ovulate, but I know my doc is not going to perscribe bc because you can't take it till your 1st day of your af so I'm seem to be in a catch 22 situation.
It might be silly but I'm a little worried that I have gone through early menopause or something worse.
I'm trying everything I can to start up my af again but nothing seems to be working.
Currently using caster oil on my belly with a hot water bottle.
Is there anything else can I do? Any advice greatly appreciated!

[atomic sagebrush]

It's not early menopause but we have to figure out WHAT it is.

I need more to go on, can you give me your supplements and when/how you're taking them, your diet, and how much you weigh/height, and how much you've lost. Also if you're exercising

Any history of PCOS and are you eating mostly empty carbs?

[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

Don't give up, atomic will help you work through it, and we're here for support.


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[twointow83]

I am the queen of long cycles lol. I have gone close to a year and over a year a few times. I have PCOS, though, and my cycles are much better now thank goodness. As far as forcing AF prometrium (progesterone pills) from my doc always did the trick for me. Since this is your first wacky cycle it is entirely likely a wrench just got thrown in and you just need a "reboot". Sometimes what happens is your body tries and tries to ovulate but after several attempts in can just kinda give up trying and you need to reboot your body by forcing AF and giving your body a fresh start.

[Beautifulrainbow]

I don't have pcos, doc ruled that out, all my hormones are with the right levels. My periods have been for most part of my life been quite irregular but never this long!
I'm currently 66.7kg I was 70.9 kg when I started losing weight in April, its not a huge amount.( I have been losing weight by eating a little less and exercising since January but it's only since April I was eating health trust me before then my diet was not health and I still had periods not very regular but not this long either)
I skip breakfast but have have don't that for years now, I'm eating salad rice cakes broccoli chicken now and again lamb,natural yoghurt, cottages cheese white rice. And I still have a sneaky bit of chocolate or cake now and again lol, I'm drinking so much more organic semi skimmed milk, cranberry juice. I try to eat some raspberries or strawberries but that's hard as I don't like them.
I take 1000mg and 500mg calcium and magnesium citrate. 100mg vitamin b6, 150mg saw palmetto, 252mg cranberry, 50mg zinc, 100ug vitamin b12 and folic acid. I take them in the evening after I have eaten with a big glass of milk.
Until 3 days ago
I was taking acidophilus as Im not sure if this is raising my ph, and vitamin e as its giving me so much more ewcm.
I also taking pseudoephedrine hydrochloride to clear up ewcm, ( which yesterday I had very little.)
I'm doing about an hour of cardio when I can but I lead a very busy life,constantly running around after people etc

[Beautifulrainbow]

Doesn't si sway boy by increasing ewcm?
could I try it until I get my af then stop by the time I o it should be out my system and won't sway?

[twointow83]

Doesn't si sway boy by increasing ewcm?
could I try it until I get my af then stop by the time I o it should be out my system and won't sway?

I am just learning all this myself so I don't know how SI sways... I would think girl since it's supposedly a "natural clomid" and clomid sways girl. as far as it being out of your system... most meds/sups take several days to completely leave your system. Up to 7-10 days for most but some meds stick around long enough to affect more than one cycle. For example, the last time I used clomid I did not ovulate at all on my own. Period. Then I took a cycle "off" (not taking clomid, still TTC even though we believed our odd of conception to be practically non-existent... I already had a script to force AF when we were ready to start up again because I didn't expect to Ov). Then lo and behold I Ov'd and got pregnant. To this day I believe the clomid was still working for me from the previous cycle.

[twointow83]

I don't have pcos, doc ruled that out, all my hormones are with the right levels. My periods have been for most part of my life been quite irregular but never this long!
I'm currently 66.7kg I was 70.9 kg when I started losing weight in April, its not a huge amount.( I have been losing weight by eating a little less and exercising since January but it's only since April I was eating health trust me before then my diet was not health and I still had periods not very regular but not this long either)
I skip breakfast but have have don't that for years now, I'm eating salad rice cakes broccoli chicken now and again lamb,natural yoghurt, cottages cheese white rice. And I still have a sneaky bit of chocolate or cake now and again lol, I'm drinking so much more organic semi skimmed milk, cranberry juice. I try to eat some raspberries or strawberries but that's hard as I don't like them.
I take 1000mg and 500mg calcium and magnesium citrate. 100mg vitamin b6, 150mg saw palmetto, 252mg cranberry, 50mg zinc, 100ug vitamin b12 and folic acid. I take them in the evening after I have eaten with a big glass of milk.
Until 3 days ago
I was taking acidophilus as Im not sure if this is raising my ph, and vitamin e as its giving me so much more ewcm.
I also taking pseudoephedrine hydrochloride to clear up ewcm, ( which yesterday I had very little.)
I'm doing about an hour of cardio when I can but I lead a very busy life,constantly running around after people etc

Do you chart? If not, there is a wealth of knowledge you can learn about your body through charting. Irratic temps could signal one issue, for example. After I started charting I learned enough about my body to diagnose myself long before any doctor did the tests to make the diagnosis. If so, can I take a peak at your charts? I am no doctor but I might be able to spot something worth knowing. I've been charting since the beginning of 2007.. through never ending cycles, through irregular cycles and through regular ones. I have also spent a lot of time assessing other's charts and I have gotten pretty decent at it.

[Beautifulrainbow]

I do chart, but it's mostly been cm as I keep forgetting to temp as soon as I wake the few day together where I did temp it was up and down

[Beautifulrainbow]

How do I post a copy of my chart? It's on an app ff