Due in December 2015- Jan/Feb 2016

[eleena2014]

Congrats on your healthy boy smartston. Sorry u didn't hear girl but he will be a bundle of joy.


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[eleena2014]

Has anyone had bouts of diarreah? I had it yesterday and the day before. Only once a day. Yesterday I felt fine then around 8pm I had explosive diarreah. Don't know if it's a virus or pregnancy related

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[kitkat18]

I know he's meant to be, I did everything I could, poor DH is upset and I don't know how I will handles my boys GD too...and I think we're going to tell everyone we're team green


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Why don't you tell your boys you don't know, that you are not finding out? I bet when he comes along they will be so smitten they won't care!! Sorry you didn't hear girl you did a great sway he is really meant to be. Big hugs Xxx

[smarston3]

Thanks ladies, didn't get a lot of sleep last night. I know he's a strong little boy for pushing through my sway. It's just a hard pill to swallow. I wish I didn't find out when I'm on vacation. I guess I thought if it were a boy, I wouldn't have time to be upset about it. We've only told family about the pregnancy and they were already cracking jokes that I'm due at Xmas ( we have an Xmas baby) now I'm dreading telling them it's another boy. I would stay team green with them(think I will in public) but I'm afraid I will flip out on someone if they sit there and try to convince me its a girl. I feel like I failed everyone including myself. I'm upset that I convinced DH that we could sway. And the poor thing feels like it's his fault. He already said we will find the money somewhere for HT but we can't have five kids!! I don't know how I'm going to handle four boys.


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[XXforhubby]

Take a deep breath, sweetie! Stop and just breath. You've only just begun to process this. I strongly suggest waiting to tell people the gender, until you are in a better place to handle negative comments. As far as dealing when people bring up girl comments, I would say we will have to wait and see, then change the subject.

I know you are panicking, thinking about having four boys. Try and relax until you are in a better frame of mind. Most of the time, our fears are far worse than reality so try and focus on the here and now. Try to enjoy your vacation with your children. Slowly allow yourself to process all of this. Don't try and tackle it all at once- you'll be too overwhelmed. Deal with this in bits and pieces, when you are ready. You have the time.

We are here for you. I'm praying for strength and clarity for you.

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[sc1411]

It's a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!

[sc1411]

Am I dreaming????? a BOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!

[Temerity]

Congratulations sc! I'm so happy you got your DG

smarston, I would definitely just hang on to the news for a little bit. It will get easier to handle as you have more time. ((hugs))

[sc1411]

Smarston, my happiness is a little bit bitter, because I'm celebrating at the same time I really hope it feels better already.

[seabeewife]

Smartson, I'm so beyond sorry you didn't hear girl my heart hurts for you. I know all too well the feeling of longing for a baby girl. Try and keep your head up.

Sc.. congrats on your DG!