Dh cycling

[Quinn31]

Before we decided to try again, we bought a trailer for our DDs and were going to take family bike rides a couple times a week. Is this a bad idea? Dh doesn't wear tight shorts but it's still cycling.

[atomic sagebrush]

Ideally, I wouldn't. But it's up to you guys.

It is one of the few things that is really, truly shown to sway in studies. Hopefully you'll get a BFP first month out and then DH can take the girls.

[Quinn31]

Ideally, I wouldn't. But it's up to you guys.

It is one of the few things that is really, truly shown to sway in studies. Hopefully you'll get a BFP first month out and then DH can take the girls.

I wasn't able to find any articles on it to show him. Do you know where some are on the Internet? Thanks so much for responding!!

[atomic sagebrush]

It takes me forever to go through and find things for you guys, I"m sorry I am not looking things up for people any more. It is on the site somewhere though. I started to do this and then realized I had taken 10 minutes of time and still not found the studies I'm talking about and was like "oh yeah this is why I am not looking things up for people any more" The Internet is so huge with more studies done every week, that unless it's a "research day" where I"m immersing myself in studies, it's terribly time consuming for me to find the "rabbit hole" that takes me to the human gender ratio studies. (ya gotta wade thru a lot of baboons to get there LOL)

Whenever I claim something to be true, it is from a study that I have read and have printed off. I have over 2000 studies printed. I honestly do not have time to go through every study every time someone has a question, I just don't. One of these decades I will have a whole bunch of studies in a library for everyone but till then I have to pick my battles to help as many people as I can without driving myself batty in the meanwhile!

[Quinn31]

I get it, thanks. He actually agreed to stop but I know he's disappointed. He's not making a big deal, I can just tell. It raises my anxiety and hopes that it needs to be a boy. He's the one that really wants one. He had pretty bad GD with our second. I know he's rrreeeaaallllllyy hoping this next one is his son and I'm letting myself take on that stress.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you for understanding!!

[Quinn31]

Sorry. One last question on this. My dh wants to know if he stands up for 90% of the time if that's ok. I obviously told him to stop completely but he feels like sitting on the seat is the problem.

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't have the data to be able to say for sure. They think it is related to the seat and pressure, but at the same time, joggers are also seeing the more girls conceived and that doesn't involve a seat (or at least the last time I jogged which was in 1983 so maybe they've changed it since then LOL)

I think you guys are going to get preggo right off the bat so this is a temporary situation.

[Quinn31]

Thanks for your positivity!! Keep it coming this way. After taking over a year last time, I'm going in very optimistic. Dh is always healthy so I'm just tweaking things for him and making big changes for myself. Fingers crossed!!