Aug 2WW

[netti02]

Fingers X for Momamia and Daisy.





Mum to 4 Boys awaiting her Princess

[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

I must be cut from a different cloth I have seen so many others ask the same question and truly someone else's wedding, even a family members, would not put me off my plans - I don't even think my own wedding could do that

I say go for it, one life and best laid plans etc

I agree with True on this one. Sure, in the short term the wedding you're taking pictures for seems really important. However 5 years from now, it won't be. How will you feel 5 years from now if you missed your chance at having another child?

My DH keeps coming back to that question because he is in the middle of writing his dissertation and will be conducting his research when we will have a little one and trying for #4. In the short term it seems totally stupid/crazy, but 5 years from now when I'll be 40 and he 41 we may be sad that we didn't at least try.

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Hitme I'd go for it, but only you can decide what is best for you. The way I see it is, whenever you get preg, your clients will have a 9 month heads up to try to find someone else if you can't do it. You can't schedule your life around other people's lives. What if you had an "oops" pregnancy... you'd notify who needed notified and make it happen. You clients have no idea if you TTC'd or had an "oops" and any *reasonable* human being would understand and appreciate that long of a heads up. Live your life girl... don't live theirs!

Hitme I agree with everyone else go for it! Where there's a will there's a way!

You guys are right. And this couple HAS kids and I think if I told them at 3or 4months (ask risk drops) that they'd be understanding. I'd try and do the wedding.... I always have a second shooter anyways, but would maybe hire them as an associate (and run the day) so I can shoot second and feed that baby as I need to. (Or pump).
You're right about it seeming significant but it's really not a big deal, just will be uncomfortable to break that news to them. I think it stems from my announcement at my last job when I got pregnant with ds 4. They treated me like shit.


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[twointow83]

Thanks two. I'm feeling so defeated right now.

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Believe me... I remember the feeling. (((HUGS)))

[Hitmebabyonemoretime]

I'm completely gutted. I thought for sure this was my cycle. I've been bloated and crampy plus I've had this god-awful acne (which I never get) only to find it was just my body gearing up for my period early I'm only 7-8 dpo and I woke up this morning and had bright pink spotting. Has anyone had this in past pregnancies and it was just a fluke? My LP is usually 12-14 days long. I really thought this was my cycle. I wish I hadn't got my hopes up with those stupid symptoms!

I had pink spotting 7dpo with ds4. I also got my first bfp that day! I tested at the doctors - using a Dollarama test. I told my doctor I did it while waiting for my turn, so he had me dip one of their hpt strips and it was neg. I think you could totally have IB.

So, I am back from the trip. I did pretty good keeping my mind off TTC, except when I peeked in here and when I was cramping like crazy. I think I did a little too good not thinking about it all in fact. My diet kinda blew up the last few days



Tonight is our attempt night but I am thinking of not (attempting that is. Hubby says we are DTD one way or the other ). I haven't OPK tested yet but highly doubt I'm surging as I am only on CD 12 and kinda think tomorrow's u/s might give us a better idea of how long of a wait we have until O and I'd hate to BD tonight and find out that it was a bad move for some reason...

Clomid ladies- Have you all noticed being more prone to sudden shifts in emotion for no apparent reason, specifically teariness(is that even a word?)? I ask because lately I will feel like I am about to tear up over absolutely nothing or small things. We were heading home today and I heard the song "A song for my daughter" and it happened, which I guess if I REALLY tried I could make some marginal sense out of. Or I was watching TV, nothing emotional about what I was watching... not even a little and suddenly felt like I was going to tear up. Over and over, over thing REALLY not worthy of tears... just curious if I am the only one

My diet went APE SHIT this weekend. I am just so fed up with it. I wanted ALL the ice cream and I had bacon, high fat dressing AND CHEESE on a sandwich at supper lol! Bacon!!!!

Just by feeling my cervix it's usually a good indicator I did test this morning and it was negative also


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Thanks two. I'm feeling so defeated right now.

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So sorry mamas. Im sure im right there with you. Seems we come roaring in each month with high hopes just to be shoved into the dirt.



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[twointow83]

You guys are right. And this couple HAS kids and I think if I told them at 3or 4months (ask risk drops) that they'd be understanding. I'd try and do the wedding.... I always have a second shooter anyways, but would maybe hire them as an associate (and run the day) so I can shoot second and feed that baby as I need to. (Or pump).
You're right about it seeming significant but it's really not a big deal, just will be uncomfortable to break that news to them. I think it stems from my announcement at my last job when I got pregnant with ds 4. They treated me like shit.


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It's awful that you were treated poorly! Sounds like you have a solid workable plan this time though!!

[twointow83]

My diet went APE SHIT this weekend. I am just so fed up with it. I wanted ALL the ice cream and I had bacon, high fat dressing AND CHEESE on a sandwich at supper lol! Bacon!!!!

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Let's see... On the day we went up I had (at home) a yogurt and something else but I can't remember what for "breakfast", then on the road we stopped at McD's and I got a burger I think... but I am not sure. Then once we got up there we stopped at Steak and shake for dinner and I LOVE LOVE LOVE their jalapeno burger and I get to go there so rarely so I got that. Yesterday (sat) I had cereal for and ACTUAL breakfast (had another long drive and wanted to wait as long as possible before stopping for food and cereal was my only option). Then I was STARVING at a gas station and so was my youngest so I got this cheese sausage in a bread roll thing and split it with him. then when I got to the reunion I had lasagna, and about a million calorie cake lol. Then today I had a whopper from Burger King, an iced frappe from a gas station, some pretzels and for dinner- the quickest, easiest and cheapest meal on the PLANET... RAMEN! Lol. To sum it up I had about 6 months worth of red meat and a a week worth of protein, fat and cals in like 3 days. I was awful this weekend but it was SOOOOOOO nice to just eat and not think about it. My norm diet consists on a lot of protein so this low protein thing keeps me from eating a lot of what I am used to (certainly not out to eat all the time, but meat and such).

[Laurenk1424]

I seriously want to cry.... My positive OPK this morning was so so dark... We decided to have our attempt tonight after our son was asleep. We were about to have the attempt and I tested again and it's stark white now..: how in the world was my window so small. I guess we will still have an attempt but I feel defeated already. Is there even a possibility to be successful now?



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[twointow83]

You could have been surging through the night last night and not even known. So, yes, there is a chance (((HUGS)))

[Laurenk1424]

You could have been surging through the night last night and not even known. So, yes, there is a chance (((HUGS)))

So even thought my test is negative now... If we BD within the next hour, I could still get pregnant??


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[twointow83]

So even thought my test is negative now... If we BD within the next hour, I could still get pregnant??


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I misunderstood the question...I thought you were asking if you still had a chance of it being a real O. But I still say Yup It takes roughly 2 hours for sperm to make it from vagina to tubes. Most ppl generally O 24-36 hours from +OPK. Lets pretend you know for a fact that your surge started at say midnight last night. It's a good bet then that you would O sometime tonight or tomorrow. Then the egg survives for an additional 24 hours meaning that even if you O'd right this second your hubby's sperm still have a 22 hour jump on the eggs expiration time Does that all make sense?

edited to correct a math mistake.