October 2WW

[Quinn31]

The 2ww is sooo long. Ff is saying I O'd a day earlier than I think I did and telling me to test two days earlier than af should come. Now it's just getting my hopes up!!

I have such a negative mindset that I'll never get pregnant because last time took a year and Dh won't try that long this time. It's so stressful. Especially because I was pregnant quickly twice and then couldn't get pregnant for no reason, we were both normal. At least people swaying girl have a reason to take a long time. You only have one attempt and I've been having 3-4 a cycle! I'm only 2dpo. I need to stay positive!!


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[Quinn31]

Do you guys think I wasted good sperm by doing 0-3, 0-2, 0-1? They probably all died by 0 day!


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[Boysboys]

I'm the same way Quinn. I'm not a negative person but this makes me that way!! I go straight to the worst case scenario! I've been thinking in my mind, maybe if I tell my MIL they could gender select she would pay for IVF if we have to!LOL I'M So crazy!!! ����

[Quinn31]

Ooh that's a great option!! I would totally do that. I'm not usually negative either but I do worry a lot. I started yoga this cycle and it's making me more relaxed I think. At least while I'm doing it. Dh is 44 and that makes me really nervous!!


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[essnce629]

Do you guys think I wasted good sperm by doing 0-3, 0-2, 0-1? They probably all died by 0 day!


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Quinn those are great chances! O-2 and O-1 have the highest chance of pregnancy, not O day! The egg lives 24 hours max, but probably more like 12 hours when you're not in your twenties, and it takes the sperm several hours to make it to the fallopian tube and egg so it's more likely that an O day BD is too late as the egg would be dead before the sperm even reach it! Sperm on the other hand can live up to 5 days in fertile cm and you want there to be enough time for the sperm to make it to the fallopian tube and be waiting for the egg. They can easily wait there for a few days! The egg has a much shorter lifespan than sperm so don't worry about it. Good luck!

[Boyzmommy]

Has any ofy here gotten bfp on 6 dpo. I m getting itchy feet to test

[has2gentlemen]

My earliest bfp was 10dpo but that was a chemical. My DS's were 14dpo and 17dpo before I saw real dark positives.


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[True Blue]

Quinn no way did you waste sperm on those days - honestly you have great chances of conception on those days, particularly O-2 & O-1 you did great!!

[Boysboys]

Ooh that's a great option!! I would totally do that. I'm not usually negative either but I do worry a lot. I started yoga this cycle and it's making me more relaxed I think. At least while I'm doing it. Dh is 44 and that makes me really nervous!!


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My DH is 38. I'm 28. That makes me a little nervous too. He started Sertraline due to a high-level stressful job with an overbearing boss so I'm so scared it has damaged/diminished his count. I made the mistake of googling it. we will see. Thankfully he is willing to get an analysis and hopefully get off medication when his boss retires which is very soon.

[Boysboys]

I think you have great attempts Quinn! I do know what you mean though, I always feel like they are dead within 24 hours!lol I think you've have a great chance though.