October 2WW

[momamia4]

Here's my chart if anyone would like to see it:
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[momamia4]

Thanks momamia! And wow thats quite a thing for your mum to ask! I hope you're able to find an ob that makes you comfortable and actually listens to you! I'll be stalking for your update in two days time!

Tell me about it! My DH is adamant that it will never happen. I can't believe she still wants another one! It's kind of nuts! My two brothers are still living at home and she watches my sisters kids every day. You'd think that would be enough for her. I don't know how to help her get past this. I just keep telling her to focus on the two kids that are still living at home and make the most of the time she gets to spend with her grandkids every day.

[Pbn3]

Here's my chart if anyone would like to see it:
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I still cant believe you're waiting another two days!! I'd be going out of my mind! On the other hand I understand as well

[momamia4]

I am not very confident and the bfn is much harder for me than waiting.

[Pbn3]

Understand well this is my chart however it doesn't tell me much as my temps normally stay elevated until af finishes but I keep temping anyway, would be nice to see a spike in the morning but I'm not holding my breath. I've been googling implantation and wish I hadn't because now I can feel hope sneaking right back in again. I even went out and bought yet another 3pk frer just in case implantation happened yesterday, today etc

[Boyzmommy]

Good luck mamamia n pbn. Fx
Lots of positive vibes on ur way


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[momamia4]

I hear ya, Pbn3. My temp typically stays high during af too. I'm pretty sure I'm going to start spotting tomorrow, as usual. I'm in a weird place over it. All I have is $ store tests. I refuse to buy more frers until I get a positive on one of them. Lol!

[Pbn3]

Hi magical! Just a quick fx for you and I hope the ivf gives you your bfp this month!! You always pop in my thoughts and wishing you all the best! So you start needles today right? Whats the schedule if you dont mind my asking?

[purple]

Wow momamia, I can't believe your mum wants another ar her age. My mum about the same age but only wants to babysit and makes it clear not overuse her services! She is keen for more grandkids from the sounds of it as after my m/c I was considering not trying again and she sounded like she didn't want me to give up.
I would definitely look at getting a better OB if she doesn't take you seriously, maybe someone who specializes with my high risk pregnancies.

Pbn, try to focus on the positive things about moving on from ttc if this isnt the month. Maybe you could look at a trip away with your family or doing something else you wouldn't be able to do when having another baby.

I do feel that ttc does put life on hold a bit as you don't want to plan things too far ahead just in case. I like to have things to look forward to or aim towards but at the moment it is just thinking about a possible baby.

[Poptart32]

Well, DH has been saying he really, really didn't want to ttc anymore but it would be fine if I did get preggo. So, we weren't planning it. My OB said we can try again as soon as we want, since I passed everything on my own. I think the miscarriage was a result of my blood clotting disorder (MTHFR). If I do get pregnant again, I'm definitely going to go to a MFM. I'm also switching OB's. I wasn't very happy with the way my OB handled the situation and I don't think she believes that I actually have a blood clotting disorder :rollseyes: because she keeps saying, "You're too young to have problems like that." WTF does that even mean? Obviously, I'm extremely frustrated with her and am not fond of her passive way of providing care. I'm going to do some research, just in case, to see if I can find a doctor who will actually treat me properly. From my research, I need to be receiving Heparin shots daily while pregnant in order to avoid a miscarriage. She keeps referring to my past successful pregnancies where I wasn't on blood thinners, but at that point (10+ years ago) I also wasn't yet hospitalized for 3 TIA's (they're strokes without the long term effects of them and how my blood clotting disorder was discovered). My disorder is clearly much worse now, which I think would dictate additional protective measures. You know? Sorry for the long answer.

What a load of rubbish! Change your doctor! My friend gave birth to her daughter still born as she had a blood clotting disorder (I forget the name of it) She takes baby aspirin daily now. She was 20 when she lost her beautiful angel at full-term. I think some doctors have a real problem with people being tuned in to themselves medically & don't accept everything that they say without good solid evidence. I am the worst patient [emoji23] fact is.. A lot of the time they're wrong! Unless there's straight forward tests with black and white results it's more of a guessing game/trial and error. Go with your gut!


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