September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

[Flava]

Thanks Z!
Yeah I guess I posted to much about it... I kinda wish I didn't but it's only because Im so nervous and scared it will not work again.
You right we need more sperm and not less so we will do it. But I think tonight would be to late so we do it now. But we are so tired and 2 of my DD are home so we will do a TBM this time.
Ok no more post about our BD because it's over.

Sorry for all the post everyone.

[zanacal]

Not too much at all Flava, that's why we're all here! Now go and make that baby boy - I'm sending you a bucket load of boy dust!!!

[LolaInLove]

So, the SA results are in. I am devastated, needless to say. I wrote a whole post about it asking for advice, but a normal count is 40-60 million and his is below 2 million. SADDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

[Flava]

Well we did a TBM only like 14 hours after last night ...that's it.

Lola- Im so sorry ! What did DH said? Could it be that he got a lot less sample to turn in because DD was home sick? So like if everything was normal he would get a higher number?

Would it help to DTD every day? I don't know just thinking here.

[3Pink1Blue]

Omg Lola, I'm so sorry. I'm sure there are things you can do, don't give up hope!

[Flava]

I just got another smiley face! How it this possible? It was - on the morning ...the only thing I can think of it's because I did not hold it long to test on the morning or for sure it would have been a + too.
I went to check just to see if this TBM was for nothing and it's a +.
Ok now Im angry we didn't wait till night it would have been 1 day at least and not just half day.
I don't see how would I get a boy out of this really...why do I have this crazy month??
Now I have to test at night too and see what happens. I never had this many +opk ever and I did used a lot when ttc #4! Why all this + ??This is day 3 now!

[LolaInLove]

Don't worry, Flava, that is good. Just dtd again!

I don't think we are gonna make it. His count is severely low. I just did a bunch of online research and it looks like in our situation, they would send us straight to IVF with ICSI (where they inject the single sperm into an egg). With his count numbers, they don't even see much success with regular IVF where they send a bunch into the petrie dish for a while with the egg. I can't understand how he got me pg 2 times though, even though not good pregnancies, obviously. The whole report is not in, though, but they just wanted to call about the count right away. Seems stupid for me to continue to take the Clomid, etc. And the worst part is, he's been on ALL of the sperm count booster supps for 6mon-1 year already! Maybe he'd be shooting all blanks without that even!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[LolaInLove]

He's sad, he apologized to me profusely and cried, but it's not his fault. I'm not mad at him or anything, just heartbroken. You guys know I can't afford that IVF stuff at all, so it seems we can try like idiots for years on end and my only hope is that maybe, just maybe, a miracle will happen. But, the doctor told me not to get my hopes up.

[Flava]

Lola- I replied on your other thread. This is so sad ...I feel stupid whining about my opk's and half day TBM now..(.but for each our own problem I guess...it's really making me sad and feel like I worked all this month's for nothing just to screw up my first try.)
You right it's not his fault at all Im sure he is very sad too. I hope there is something else to help and not just the IVF because of the cost. You did get pregnant before so it's not impossible !

[LolaInLove]

Thanks, Flava....don't worry about it, you are not whining on! Everyone's issues are theirs, ya know? I hope you don't worry, though, sounds like you still have good timing! And if you want to wait till next month, you can. I know, I did get pregnant before, but they were both non-viable beans, so that is worrisome. I'm trying to hold on to some hope, but it's seeping out of the window more each minute as I sit here at my desk and try not to have a nervous breakdown in front of my staff, LOL.