just a quick rant

[atomic sagebrush]

girls, I have very little time to guess on nubs. I try to do it whenever I recognize a user name or someone asks me to. But if you already know gender and are playing some guessing game with everyone or "testing me" please don't. If you know the baby's gender already please say so when you post your photos. Most people will still guess. I do not have the time to spend an hour a day guessing on nubs for people who already know their baby's gender for some kind of "gotcha" if I guess wrong. I am not and never have been an ultrasound expert, never claimed to be, and it takes time away from the other people who do need my help and also my kids to spend time on these pointless posts.

[3'sacharm]

�� sorry that you've had to post this atomic, I wasn't aware people were doing that - very unfair and I don't understand for what purpose?!! I love having a nose at people's scans, I hope one day in the not too distant future I'll be able to post another one of my own for others to guess on ☺️ x

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't think they're doing it to be butts, I think they just want to know what people say without knowing that they already know, but it is a huge timesuck and has just happened like 5 times in a row where I spent 5-10 minutes guessing on nubs (because even just opening a thread and posting a reply takes a certain amount time for me) and then they knew all along and were like haha it's a -- and I'm like, why did you waste my time - if I saw the gender was already known I may not have bothered posting. I just don't think people realize it, that's all.