Is it just me ?

[Kitty0911]

I have three boys and I'm pretty darn certain I'm having boy #4. Even when I try to think of having a daughter my mind won't even let me go there! I will sit and daydream about the ultrasound and try to envision seeing three lines and then my brain will make me see a turtle! I can't even make myself see what I want to see! Or if I daydream about giving birth and the baby comes out a girl, instantly my mind makes the girl into a boy! If I get told "it's a girl" next week I will probably not believe it. Actually, I know that it is a boy with such certainty that I will probably not go shopping until I actually give birth to a girl. I do not see myself with a daughter. I see myself with 5 boys, and know that my next sway will fail as well. My gut instincts have yet to be wrong!

[missiz]

I really understand what you mean, I feel like it would be impossible for me to have a girl... I have to keep telling myself that it is still a 50/50 shot and if we are swaying hopefully the odds are even better... but wow does my mind have a strong opinion on it lol I am terrified to daydream too much about a daughter because I keep getting this crushing feeling that it will never happen and to just move on.

[Violet Winter]

I find it very hard to imagine me having a daughter. I see myself as an all boy mum. But on the otherhand I find it hard to imagine having another boy. DS2 is such a sweet little boy and I love having him as my baby. One moment my mind tells me I'm carrying a girl then the next moment it says stop day dreaming it can only be another boy.

[atomic sagebrush]

I absolutely felt the same. Still do sometimes. On Halloween my daughter went trick or treating with my older sons and they came back and knocked on the door as a joke, and I answered it assuming it was a trick or treater, and saw only her for a moment before I noticed one of my sons with her. I was like, aw what an adorable little girl and then it took me a good 30 seconds before I realized, "oh she's mine!"

[lmd2281]

Yep after 4 boys I can't imagine this 5th little bundle being anything but boy as well. Everyone BUT me seems certain it's a girl tho lol

[Dreamingofpinkafter2blue]

Atomic - your little girl is soooooo cute in your pic. your Ds is too! I think you should have one more girl!

[Butterflies buttercups]

Thank u for your all your posts it seems we all feel the same - and I agree my mind (when I was pregnant last) wouldn't even let me imagine having a girl my instinct was to always shop for blue even thought we were team yellow until the birth ...
Atomic your little story is so lovely ! xxx


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[atomic sagebrush]

Atomic - your little girl is soooooo cute in your pic. your Ds is too! I think you should have one more girl!

Thank you! That's so sweet of you. Too old though!

[4boyz]

Hi butterflies you probably remember me from our chats in th HT section, just wanted to update that I've recently found out I'm expecting No:5! This one snook in most unexpectedly before I was supposed to go back for round 2 of HT. Initially I was so upset that I'd screwed up my chance but now I feel maybe it was just meant to be. I am totally expecting this one to be another boy and am trying not to even think that this could be a girl, I've actually spent the last 6 months coming to terms with that maybe I was only ever made to have boys since finding out I have pcos as this sways boys apparently, so I guess part of me too can't imagine having a girl either, what will be will be I guess! Good luck with your sway

[Butterflies buttercups]

Hi 4boyz yes I remember u! I think you went to Savvas?
Congratulations on #5!
How far along are u? Will u find out what you're having ?
Wishing u a healthy pregnancy boy or girl ! Xxx


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