Due in June/July/August 2016

[yogi&booboo]

Alright ladies I have scheduled my private scan next Tuesday. I am super nervous and I have been mentally preparing my husband and two oldest daughter's and I have been asking them to be equally happy if its a girl or boy. We are taking my youngest with us who will find out about my pregnancy then since we haven't told her because she is very outspoken and we have had a few gatherings and parties since I found out I was pregnant and im sure everyone would know by now. I am ok with hearing girl, I really just don't want to hear sadness and pitty from anyone. I know this baby will be loved unconditionally when born but I have been through so much in these short few weeks and I dont think my heart would take it if I saw any expression other than happiness. I am extremely contemplating if I should go now for a scan while the dh is at work and kids are at school and if it's a girl I can just tell them in advance so they wont go with high hopes. This is too much to take in and my wheels are turning trying to think how to handle this situation

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[Boyzmommy]

Aww sweet yogi i have similar feelings like you. A part of me wants a girl so bad but i dont want anyone to feel sad n pity for me. I can totally relate to ur feelings n understand how you feel.
How far are u ?


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[Bluebooties]

Well my friend just announced that she is due with her third boy yayyy ! ... she might be going through GD right now but i feel its just amazing that she has 3 boys ... perspective changes everything doesnt it ?

[Bambi_twins]

Wanted to say hi! Think I'm due in August have an early scan today. I'm having a little girl she's a high tech baby. Good luck to all for h&h pregnancies [emoji173]️[emoji173]️


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[yogi&booboo]

Aww sweet yogi i have similar feelings like you. A part of me wants a girl so bad but i dont want anyone to feel sad n pity for me. I can totally relate to ur feelings n understand how you feel.
How far are u ?


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Im ok thank you for asking. Being super cautious in all moves I make as I fear any kind of bleed :/ going through lots of emotions trying to find out what i am having. I wish i could get past week 20 so I can be somewhat at ease. How are you? How are you feeling so far?

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[Fiya]

@Bambi-twins: congrats on your little girl. Enjoy your scan today. Keep us posted.

@yogi & boyzmommy: I feel just like you about the pity feelings from people around me (close or less close). All will be over the moon if it's a girl, but how will they react if it's another boy?

I was talking to my sister yesterday and I asked her what gender she thought it would be, and she just said: probably a boy, right? And that made me sad. She knows I was on LE diet, but she has no hope whatsoever. Just to prove her wrong, I want this to be my little girl. She has no kids yet and she's 28, so I don't know if she really understands.

10 weeks today, I'm happy. I have a scan on Monday to see if baby has grown well. I'm sooooooo impatient.

[Bambi_twins]

Thanks Fiya, will you do harmony test to determine gender? I'm hoping you get your princess xx


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[Fiya]

No, no harmony for me. I live in France and it's not common to do this screening overhere. I will have a scan at 13w+1 with hopely a beautiful nub and another one at 15+3 to determine the gender of this baby. I actually wanted to go to barcelona for a non-invasive blood screening, but my hubby thought this was a bit too much just before Christmas. So I try very hard to be patient, which I'm not!

[mammacass]

Thankyou ladies [emoji120]🏻

Oh wow yogi wishing you luck! Totally understandable being super nervous. I am also the same and worried about others reactions/comments and would resent anyone showing pity.

Wow bee, 6 days b4 O, that's amazing [emoji4] Sucks that you couldn't have your scan when DH would be able to come along. Would be hard not finding out if it's only you in the room lol

Welcome bambi and congrats on your girl

Good luck with your scan Monday Fiya [emoji4]


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[Bluebooties]

Congrats on ur baby girl bambi and welcome !

GL yogi with ur scan. So exciting. I am like u ladies too. Scans give me panic attacks since i know they can (i hope they dont) take away my last hope that this baby might be my first baby boy !