Dec 2015 TWW/Testing

[tfahn]

Anywhere between 8-10 DPO today, tested and had a BFN this morning Today is DH's Birthday and really wanted to be able to give him BFP. Feeling down this morning.

[ksmom]

Tfahn looking at your chart I think you're only 8dpo so don't despair! It's still really early. I hope you get a BFP this cycle!

[Quinn31]

Sorry tfahn, I agree that 8-10 is super early! With my girls, I don't think I had a positive until at least 11, 15 with the last one.

I started my swaying again. I had completely dropped everything when I got my bfp but my tests have not gotten any darker. The wondfo is slightly darker but the frer are the same, even when I used fmu this morning. I'm also feeling down. I feel like I have no one to really talk to.


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[tfahn]

So sorry Quinn that your tests have not gotten any darker. Are you having a repeat HCG test tomorrow to see if the numbers increased? Maybe its just a slower riser, don't give up hope yet; I would trust the blood test numbers more. Was this a Clomid cycle?

With DD#1 I had a positive at 10 DPO so I guess that is why I was thinking I would see one this morning. I wish my O was more definable this month, I hate not knowing which day it occurred. I don't think I am 8 dpo just because of the lab work I had that last week looks to me that I had already ovulated so maybe I am only 9 DPO?

I have a follow up appt with my RE in an hour. They want to give me a script for Clomid to use next month if I don't get a BFP this week; I really hate that it sways pink but as Atomic says you can't get you GD if you not get pregnant and I really would be ok with another DD. I believe it will be 50mg and taken CD3-7.

Keep your hopes up, I let myself be sad for a little this morning and tried not to wallow too much as it doesn't really change anything; trying to think positive

[tfahn]

Also a little annoyed with DH, we haven't done the SA yet. I texted him today to see if he would do it since the RE will surely ask. His reply: Prefer not, but if its what I want he would do it.

Really? I have done atleast 6 different blood draws, had a HSG done and will be taking drugs next month. Is it too much to ask to take a couple minutes at home and produce a sample in a cup?
I think his downfall is that he has to be with when we take the sample into the office to show his ID. Whatever, when I had my HSG done they had to clamp my cervix because they couldn't get the cath in!! So yes he will be doing the test, LOL!

[Quinn31]

Tfahn is this your first experience with a RE? I needed one for my last dd. I never know how to take dh's in this experience. Do they feel the same we do and just hide it? My dh told me to stop speculating and he'll wait for the dr and our next blood draw. I think he's trying to keep himself busy. They probably also feel pretty uncomfortable to give a specimen. I know I would!!

I have a few friends that have had boys on clomid so I'm keeping my hopes up. We may actually go for the IUI next month. We just want to be pregnant.


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[tfahn]

Yes just started going to the RE last month, had no issues getting pregnant with DD#1 as it only took 2 months off BCP to get a BFP. Quick appt with RE today but got a script for Clomid to use CD 3-7 if we don't get a BFP this month. The RE made me feel better that the odds of twins don't go up due to my age so only 7-10% chance of twins and doesn't increase chances for triplets or above. DH's mother is a twin so its always in the back of my mind, lol.

I would consider IUI in a few months if just Clomid doesn't work.

[Pbn3]

I'm over the moon to report cycle 8 may just be my cycle!!!

[tfahn]

CONGRATS PBN!!!! That's great!!! I am hoping I get to see one of those soon

[Pbn3]

Not sure if this pic shows it better?