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  1. #11
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    I'd do Friday am personally! If that's not possible then tonight. Not a huge difference regardless.

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    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Ok you ovulate they say after a positive opk, right?
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    Yes, usually 1-2 days after your first positive. Sometimes later the same day or 3+ days after, but that's not as common.

    My Ovulation Chart
    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hex View Post
    Ok we dtd on Monday and I just got a positive opk so should we do it Friday or do it today?
    That is up to the individual's discretion really. Personally, I think Mon to Thurs is a pretty slim chance of conception and Friday may be too late. When in doubt, attempt. You can get pregnant from an attempt too early, not too late though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maidentomother View Post
    I'd do Friday am personally! If that's not possible then tonight. Not a huge difference regardless.
    Yeah not a huge diff. either way so I'd try to err on the side of being in with attempt sooner rather than later. Later can be too late, sooner would stil be a chance of conception. If you can't decide, flip a coin.
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    This is going to be our last child and it's more important to me that we have a girl rather than concieve ASAP although I'd feel blessed with a third boy, I'd rather limit my chances of conception if there is a chance it could give me a daughter. I did put the attemp in on Friday. Our son was conceived either outside of my fertile window entirely or while pulling out so from our experience we conceived pretty quick at least 5 years ago so we will see!
    It's not worth stressing over.
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    Fx for you!

    My Ovulation Chart
    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hex View Post
    This is going to be our last child and it's more important to me that we have a girl rather than concieve ASAP although I'd feel blessed with a third boy, I'd rather limit my chances of conception if there is a chance it could give me a daughter. I did put the attemp in on Friday. Our son was conceived either outside of my fertile window entirely or while pulling out so from our experience we conceived pretty quick at least 5 years ago so we will see!
    It's not worth stressing over.
    that's why I like having you guys decide when possible - everyone has their own preferences about sway vs. conception and I just like to leave the ball in your court.
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    Quote Originally Posted by maidentomother View Post
    It is extremely rare to O on combined BCPs taken properly, bc the way they prevent pregnancy is (generally) by inhibiting O; I'm basically a freak. They do not interfere with implantation specifically. The only reason they sometimes prevented pregnancy for me was due to the extreme drying effect on my CM, and that I often used lube unfriendly to sperm, but most of the time they were not effective contraception for me.

    I highly doubt you Oed regularly on the pill (I've yet to encounter anyone else who does), but I did want to mention the possibility no matter how rare. If you didn't always take your pill on time or skipped pills, it's certainly possible you've had an ovulatory cycle on BCPs at some point, but multiple cycles/regularly is unlikely.


    How I got my 3rd boy, stressful times, vomited, looking back must have vomited the bcp! ops never mind my 3rd boys is so sweet!

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    BR, that's a determined soul! Generally missing just one pill and possibly not all of one isn't enough to allow O. Clearly your DS3 was meant to be.

    My Ovulation Chart
    currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
    Mar 2012: miscarried B/G twins @5w (conceived 2 cycles after remověng Paraguard copper IUD while NTNP), one twin was ovarian ectopic

    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period

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