Jan 2016 TTC / Testing - New Year BFPs!

[twointow83]

The last few day have bee ROUGH! It's currently friday here (for those outside the US), though just barely (12:30 am). On Tuesday I had the WORST pains on my left side (the kind that make you want to put your fist through a wall, or curl op and die.. either way). Then, on Wednesday, I had a very different but just as bad kind of pain on my right side. Basically, Tues's pains were very sharp but Wen's were more like a swollen, gonna pop any second kind of pain with the added bonus of being so bloated (I looked about 6-7 months preg) that I felt like I really was gonna pop. Wen's pains were like ALL over my lower abdomen and I only realized the were originating solely for my right after laying down. It was awful. So much so that my ovaries are STILL sore (usually post-o I get near complete relief for a few days before the post-o pinching and cramping starts in). Today...er yesterday, my right side was pretty stabby feeling also, whereas my left has been more of a dull ache with a stab here and there. Anyway, point being it has been a pretty rough O this month! Managed to get lots of BD'ing in despite the pain (though I REALLY REALLY didn't want to but knew I needed to) for a total of 4 attempts (one O-2, two on O-1 and one on O-day). I got my shift yesterday (Thursday) morning and as of today my signs are trending toward infertile but not there just yet (for example my CM is an EW/Creamy mix) so I am thinking I prob O'd in the later hours on Wen night... soon enough to get a shift but late enough to not go completely infertile today. So... now we wait *sigh*
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[pinkin2011]

Twointow. I got 6 attempts in . Even tho id like a girl I just need and want to get pregnant!

[twointow83]

Twointow. I got 6 attempts in . Even tho id like a girl I just need and want to get pregnant!

Same here. I would still love to have a girl but at this point we just want a healthy bean no matter the gender. We r just ready to put the TTC part of our lives out to pasture and move on with our lives whatever that future may hold.

🙏 for a healthy 🌈 🚼
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[pinkin2011]

Oh I know what you mean!!! Our ds2 is 3.5 now and I don't want a really big gap. I just want to move on with life too. Build a house ect . TTC has been consuming me since 2014 and I am so sick of it. Plus I need to get off this clomid as I am turning into a crazy woman

[farmgirl33]

Twointow- so sorry you've had such terrible pain. That's great though you got lots of bd in, well done. Fx it leads to a bfp. Sending you all my girl dust.

Pinkin - well done on all your bd attempts too. We only managed 5 which I'm sure is the most we've ever done when ttc. If i o'd yesterday, then we bd every night from 0-4 to 0. Fx for a bfp for you this month & sending you lots of girl dust too.






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[farmgirl33]

Oh I know what you mean!!! Our ds2 is 3.5 now and I don't want a really big gap. I just want to move on with life too. Build a house ect . TTC has been consuming me since 2014 and I am so sick of it. Plus I need to get off this clomid as I am turning into a crazy woman

I get what you're saying pinkin. Even though this is only our 2nd cycle ttc, I have been off the pill since nov 2014 as we were originally planning to give my body a couple of natural cycles then we were going to ttc. For various reasons we kept putting it off & now I just want to be pregnant & have a baby then I can start clearing out all the baby stuff that is cluttering my house & move on with life as a family of 6. I really feel I am meant to have 4 kids, but know that I will then be done. No way can I see us having anymore than 4.


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[twointow83]

Oh I know what you mean!!! Our ds2 is 3.5 now and I don't want a really big gap. I just want to move on with life too. Build a house ect . TTC has been consuming me since 2014 and I am so sick of it. Plus I need to get off this clomid as I am turning into a crazy woman

3.5 years isn't too bad, but I guess we all have our preferences. My youngest would be 6 by the time baby is born, even if I get preg like right now. I never wanted a gap that big. I think about 4 years is perfect. My kids are autistic and potty train really late (both at 4 years old). We have been trying to get preg since a couple months after my youngest potty trained and thanks to 2 early losses and a CP we are still trying. My youngest's b-day is in June and I always said that if my youngest was 6 we wouldn't be starting over. That woild put us close to my youngest being 7 by the time baby is born. Much bigger gap than we ever wanted but we have decided we have until July to get preg or we are done TTC. So, the focus at this point is less gender dreaming and more baby dreaming lol. I'd be over the moon regardless of gender if baby would just stick and be healthy.

🙏 for a healthy 🌈 🚼
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[twointow83]

Ok... this app thanked myself on my post lol. Weird

🙏 for a healthy 🌈 🚼
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[purple]

My gap will be at least 5 years now. I guess the bonus will be the older 2 are in school so I would have days to spend just with the baby.

[ksmom]

I tip my hat to you ladies who have been TTC for so long. I hope you all get BFPs very, very soon!! FX

Quinn, you'll be testing very soon right? Eee good luck!

CD15 today and got a high reading on the advanced OPK which is quite early for me. I'd been feeling like my body is gearing up for O but wasn't sure if it was just wishful thinking.