TTC Blue Crew Grads

[iluvmyman]

I don't think I've posted here so I have now officially.

[begonia]

For those who don't see it elsewhere girl #3 for us!

I'm not shocked. But (and I posted more on the blue crew thread) there's definitely some sad there. Glad I found out though, don't regret it at all.

[babydes56]

Begonia, congrats on your healthy lil girl! I know you a little sad but i know you'll love her just as much as if you'd had a boy. I'm sure you glad you went for the scan because now you can enjoy the rest of your preg without the obssessing. You are a lovely person too & that lil girl's lucky to have a mommy like you. Did the pictures you took with you today help when you got the news?

[3Pink1Blue]

Welcome Iluv! So glad to have you

B- I'll say it again, congrats three girls is truely awesome!

[Flava]

Ok girls I think i can move over here.Hope it's a right place for me.
maybe I make a cute ticker like Jen too! I really love this widgets too but I had one with DD4 and now I feel like I better don't pick one of those...

Begonia big hugs again! XXX

[3Pink1Blue]

Glad you decided to join us Flava!!

[Cheekymoo]

begonia- congrats on another little flower for your garden ! Don't feel guilty for feeling a little sad- it is nothing to do with the beautiful baby you carry( which i know you will welcome lovingly) it is more about the imaginary son - let yourself grieve him and then move on three girls has soo many positives and the more i think about it the more i am seeing them !

[begonia]

Begonia, congrats on your healthy lil girl! I know you a little sad but i know you'll love her just as much as if you'd had a boy. I'm sure you glad you went for the scan because now you can enjoy the rest of your preg without the obssessing. You are a lovely person too & that lil girl's lucky to have a mommy like you. Did the pictures you took with you today help when you got the news?

Aww, Babydes, that's a really nice thing to say, thank you. It absolutely helped to see the pictures of my baby girls. Really the hardest part is tempering DH's expectations. But I am glad I know now so that I can do that, he's definitely had his hopes high, and I kind of was not bothering to temper them because I really thought this time we had a good shot at blue. FX you got your boy!

[begonia]

begonia- congrats on another little flower for your garden ! Don't feel guilty for feeling a little sad- it is nothing to do with the beautiful baby you carry( which i know you will welcome lovingly) it is more about the imaginary son - let yourself grieve him and then move on three girls has soo many positives and the more i think about it the more i am seeing them !

Thank you Cheeky! I am going to LOVE three daughters!!! We are going to have the best time It's really the loss for DH that I struggle with more, but he'll be fine too. I do want to work on getting his hopes lower so they aren't totally dashed at the birth, but honestly, I know he'll be thrilled to see another sweet little lady join our group. It's just that I let him get his hopes up higher since I did think there was a good chance this time, KWIM? So now I need to focus on gently bringing him back into what will be our reality ... we hadn't really spent any time thinking of girl names, so I'm going to get those conversations going for sure. It'll be tough to find one more!

[begonia]

Ok girls I think i can move over here.Hope it's a right place for me.
maybe I make a cute ticker like Jen too! I really love this widgets too but I had one with DD4 and now I feel like I better don't pick one of those...

Begonia big hugs again! XXX

Thank you Flava!