Doubting my sway

[Aus]

Thanks Mulberry!


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[Aus]

Hi family matters, yes I am going to do the percept


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[Quinn31]

My results should be in this week and I'm freaking out!! I want a boy for my dh so bad as we have two girls. He will be so heartbroken if he doesn't get his son and this is our last for sure. I used my swaying to convince him to try for one more so although he knows it could be a girl, I think he's hopeful it's a boy. I really don't feel like I can conceive a boy either but I guess it's possible. I took clomid so I'm really nervous. My diet, supplements, and exercise were pretty solid so I'm hoping that will overpower it. Of course I cheated, especially at Christmas time when I had a cp. I od'd on junk food and caffeinated coffee!!! Lol


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[Aus]

Well I got the results today and it is a girl. I really thought this sway would work. Obviously I am not destined to have a boy. I am pretty upset and finding it a little hard today to be excited about the pregnancy. I just know if I go for a third it will be another girl and the odds are against me. Just pretty upset because this may have been my last shot as two might be it for me.


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[Throwaway_panther]

I'm so sorry Aus ♡

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[Quinn31]

Well I got the results today and it is a girl. I really thought this away would work. Obviously I am not destined to have a boy. I am pretty upset and finding it a little hard today to be excited about the pregnancy. I just know if I go for a third it will be another girl and the odds are against me. Just pretty upset because this may have been my last shot as two might be it for me.


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I just found out I'm having my third girl! It's now been one week since I found out and I'm finally feeling better. The first week, I randomly cried and would wake up thinking about it in the middle of the night. I didn't want to be pregnant anymore and was basically angry with the world.

I am starting to get excited about the baby now and my husband (who I swayed for) is being cool about it. I know how you feel and it's okay to have all of these emotions. We know when we meet our babies, we'll love them more than anything but we'll mourn the son we won't have. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. When I first found out, the last thing I wanted to think about were names or anything. Now thinking about names is getting me excited. I'm sorry you heard girl. I've definitely been there.

[baby2016baby]

Just to say thinking of you both, I know exactly how you feel it does get easier with time and before you know it you will be so consumed with everything you will be fine. I struggled more with my third as I was so sure and convinced myself the sway had worked, even though if I'm honest it was a 80/20 effort. I went through a period of saying never again but yet only 2 years later to I'm back again to try again! I wish you well, little girls are lovely xxx

[Aus]

Thank you Panther.
Quinn your words have been really helpful and I am truly grateful. Sorry that you sway wasn't successful too!

Thank you baby2016.

I really appreciate everyone's comments.


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[Aus]

Reflecting on this hours later I am still upset. It is a strange feeling, almost like i feel like a bit of a failure not being able to conceive a boy. I know that sounds stupid.

I think the more I think about it that the whole thing is purely luck. I don't really believe swaying works, I think it is just the luck of the draw. Some people just have both sexes and some just get one sex.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry it didn't work out, Aus.

You should not feel like a failure for not conceiving a boy. I assure you if you or anyone were to "Duggar it out" then you'd have one. There is definitely an element of luck involved and it is not a SMALL element either. The reason we sway is not to get a guarantee, it's to hopefully make it happen sooner without having to Duggar it out, yk?? If it was easy and guaranteed then the whole human race would have died out a long time ago.

I know this isn't what you're wanting to hear right now but I do have to mention this for others reading the thread that it is not luck because we have the results to show that it isn't luck. If it was 50-50 every time, then we would have 50-50 results. It does work, it's unfortunately not a guarantee, though.