September TTC Boy Chit Chat and Such Thread

[My Fabulous Children]

Well just got confirmation that I am having miscarriage #3.

I cannot keep doing this so we are done our family. As
sad as it makes me I cannot keep going on like this.

I wish you all the best.
Thanks for the support through all this.
You gals are great!

I am so very sorry for your loss ((Hugs)) There must be some tests they can do to find out why this keeps happening to you? Talk to your Dr about this. I really hope you get get some answers.

[My Fabulous Children]

I'm guessing maybe too much or you touched your cervix with it. Try and not touch your cervix. It never hurt when I did it. Good luck!

I agree ..Me too.

[My Fabulous Children]

You are a size ONE? Jeez, Flava, you are so lucky! I was a size 10 before this diet, and now I think 12 is getting a little small....

Flava you are a size one?!!! OMG ..I am exactly just like you hobber

[My Fabulous Children]

Thanks. But i think we are done unless we get some answers. my heart is broken and i am trying so hard not to cry in front of my girls.

(((HUGS))) I feel so sad for you hun xxxxx I hope you can get some answers soon. I feel your pain and know it's hard but please don't give up.

[My Fabulous Children]

Hey girls! Re: the comments, I guess the fact is I will probably just say "I love my girls" and leave it at that. After all, no one will be wrong when they say "Wouldn't you have loved a son?" So I'll probably just say "I love my girls. If I had a son I would have loved him too." And leave it at that. Because it's the truth right? I did TRY to have a son. I wanted a son. Heck, in my dream world, I would have had 3 sons. But I have GOT to leave that want behind now because I don't want a 4th child, and I don't want to spend the rest of my life (or really, more of my time, at all) wanting something I'm not going to have, and God forbid, leaving my girls EVER feeling that they are less than perfect to me. I'm glad I found this board and glad I swayed, if I had girl #3 w/o swaying I always would have wondered IF I had swayed ... would I have had him. But now I know. For reasons I don't know, DH and I weren't meant to have a son.

I posted this on the pg thread and am just going to copy it here ...
I'm torn as to whether it is good for me personally to be here anymore. I feel so tied to so many of you that I want to know what happens, I want you all to get your DG, but for me right now this feels like a place where I came when I had hope, and not to be all Debbie Downer but I don't have that hope anymore. I have my reality, and my reality is I'm never going to have the son I wanted for all of my life, my DH is never going to have a boy to raise. And that's hard, and while this is a place where I get support on those feelings, I also feel like it might be healthier for me to get on with my life offline and move forward. I never ever saw myself with 3 daughters. Even though I knew for sure it was a possibility and a strong one that our third would also be a girl, I just had that hope. I'm still really glad that I found out because not knowing was worse for sure. But now that my hope is gone, and I'm not having any more kids, I think I need to move on for my own mental health. I'll no doubt lurk here and there to check on everyone and maybe one day (especially once she's here) I'll be able to come back fully to catch up, but right now, I need to focus on what I have, 3 healthy girls, and coming here reminds me of what I don't, and that's not healthy for me. Like I said, I'm sure I'll pop on, but it's not going to be daily or anywhere close to it. All that to say, I'm out for awhile. I love this place, and love y'all, and wish everyone the best!

I'm so sad for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I completely understand. Take care dear, We will miss you much

[My Fabulous Children]

Ok so I am coming up to my first ovulation since coming off the pill and noticed I have gone from dry to a little wetish in just a few hours.. checked my pH and it was a 7!!!! I can not believe that, I have not done any bsf's nor did I have a bsb today either. I am STOKED! Have only been back on supps for around 3 weeks now but must be doing something right compared to earlier this year when I was struggling to stay in the 6's...

Great pH!

[My Fabulous Children]

Is anyone taking FUR? If yes which one?

[TTC5]

What is fur??

[LolaInLove]

Begonia, I understand how you feel. I hope you have a happy, healthy, and peaceful rest of your pregnancy and a wonderful birth. Please come back and chat anytime you feel like it. I'll miss ya, been a long time for us, yea? xxoo

[LolaInLove]

What is fur??

False Unicorn Root, right, MFC? I took it one cycle a long time ago and it made me ovulate a week late.