Jubilant July 2WW thread

[baby2016baby]

Congrats 3sacharm. So exciting. Nice to see a bfp as feels like this hasent been a great for month for many of us xxx

[baby2016baby]

Girlie I understand you won't qualify for ivf as I too am in the same boat. But did he discuss other checks? For example lap and dye, a scan to check for pcos or cysts or even endometriosis. Because there's alot of things to try before ivf. I'm just not sure how many can be covered on nhs. Also you could try hormonal medications such as clomid/progesterone a trigger shot. But again I'm not sure how far they will go on nhs. Either way you will usually need to be reffers by your gp. I'm too going back in November so if we're still about I can let you know how I get on. But hope you get your bfp before it comes to that xxx

[tfahn]

Nothing again this morning on the FRER, I will have blood work tomorrow to confirm negative HCG so I can stop the progesterone this cycle and wait for AF.

[Girlieplease]

I see the line 3sacharm, congrats! Amazing news

So sorry tfahn that is so disappointing!

Baby2016baby, he went into no detail about tests that would/ could happen after trying for a year. I kindof got the opinion, because I have three babies already and fell pregnant very easily before, he is sort of assuming I will fall pregnant and we won't have to go there, he said he is fairly confident I will fall pregnant before 12 months. Though he does not know am swaying and not having as much sex as I probably should be! ;-) glad to have someone in the same boat, hope you and I both get bfp before having to speak to gp again, sending all my blue dust your way if you could spare some pink I would gladly take it!

[baby2016baby]

Take all my pink in return for blue.

Tfahn so dissapointing. Your chart looked great this month too fingers crossed for you still xxx

[3'sacharm]

Tfahn and girlie please, I hope this cycle works out well for you both. I'm ieeping everything crossed for you.

Thanks ladies, it's a funny thing really as last month I had loads of symptoms but other than sore bbs this month, I don't really have any?! I tested as just had a very "calm" feeling that I was and figured I was due on now and af hasn't rocked up. It was late this afternoon that I took it so will test again in the morning with fmu as have a couple of weddings this week and next - could be interesting trying to avoid alcohol fingers crossed its a sticky "pink" one...!x

[purple]

Congrats 3!!

Girlieplease.. 36 isn't old.. I'm 36 too (37 in Nov). Although having said that, when I went to the gp with my pregnancy last year at 35 my dr was all doom and gloom about how old I was so drs can be funny about age.
I wasn't made to wait a year to get a referral to a FS though, I think it is after 6 months if over 35 unless you have an obvious issues like wacky cycles then they will refer you sooner. It is a bit different in Australia, we have a medicare system that pays for part of appointments but we also pay a lot out of pocket. They have no restictions on ivf here but you do have out of pocket costs. You may not even need ivf, clomid could do the trick!

[baby2016baby]

I tested today but I think I'm having another chemical. I definatly ov evening if the 9th/10th so I should be 12 or 13dpo today but mine is barely visable on fr and even if of later shouldn't be as fient. It's exactly like my chemical. Please keep fingers crossed I'm wrong as it's out last month of trying before I take a break to loose weight and go to my gp. I'm not telling hubby so you guys are all I have xxxx

(edited to add pics, FMU, 12/13dpo)

[3'sacharm]

Aw baby2016 I'm keeping everything crossed. I'm in the same position as you in that I haven't told anyone other than you guys, not even hubby! I'm too scared but I don't know how I'm going to get away with it with all the social events we have coming up where I'll be expected to drink!

I don't know anything about fertility referrals so I'm sorry I can't help on that front. It's tricky when you're swaying pink as you're reducing fertility anyway.x

[baby2016baby]

thanks 3. I'm swaying blue and its really getting to me and hubby that we started HE and all the gear end of Feb. We have both put on weight as we normally have a horrendous diet but done eat much if that makes sense. I'm going to test tomorrow and try to not drink any fluids after 9pm see if test gets darker. I have no symptoms at all. In fact I gave up at about 9dpo when I googled "early pregnany symptoms" and I had the exact opposite of everyone else! boobs don't hurt, not peeing any more, not changes in anyway, no cm. This is somewhat typical for me but I usually gag when brushing teeth and get a good sense of smell and my tastebuds change usually straight away. I feel exactly like I did with my chemical, ie not at all pregnant, in fact less pregnant than months I get bfn and af. My af was 3 days later with my chemical and I knew something was wrong straight away, kinda got that feeling again but trying so hard to have some PMA. I also had a miscarriage on new years eve just gone at about 7 weeks and that almost broke us. Its funny we weren't trying but once you accept it your ok, the sense of loss was still aweful. Ive had now 3 MC, 2 chems and 3 live babies. I'm starting to think maybe I cant carry boys as I am a carrier of a blood clotting disorder affecting only males. Hence I qualify for free pgd but only to make a girl, DOH! better mention Im only a 2nd generation carrier and my husband is negative. So if I were to have a boy there only a 12.5% chance he will get the gene, and about 3% chance he will have the disorder. Its easily controlled by one tablet daily xxx

I too have a lot of events coming up which will be a nightmare to get around but I am not even thinking that far. I just want to get to past af due date (sunday) and see test darkening first. I'm not even excited at all, just worried, so sad but when you've had a rough time in past I think you get guarded xxxx