Worried about fertility and swaying - low AMH

[ManchesterMrs]

Thanks Hun! Cannot thank you enough for your positivity. I am going to TRY my hardest to put it behind me and try to move on with positivity that I can conceive again xx

[atomic sagebrush]

MM, I just wanted to reassure you that I have had several dozen swayers with numbers MUCH worse than that get pregnant naturally even after several failed HT rounds. Babygirlquest is exactly right, you only need ONE egg with natural conception!! (we like to call "her" Goldie the Golden Egg)

Your plan is done and was sent to be reformmated and posted in your Custom Forum. You'll get a PM with a link as soon as it's up.

[ManchesterMrs]

Thank you so much atomic! You are so so kind to reassure me like this. I have been going out of my mind with worry since the cycle failed last month. The doctor was so negative that he really scared the life out of me.

I feel so much more positive now and cannot wait to start swaying! I hope my goldie the golden egg is waiting for me as I am certainly ready for her! x

[atomic sagebrush]

I am not a fan of that doctor and have found (just my VVVVVHO) that he has a tendency to tell people they are infertile to cover up when he screws up their protocols. :/ Again, JMO but I feel like it's happened so often that I cannot come up with any other reason. Other RE's are like "here's what we are going to do to help you get pregnant" even in very hard cases. Any doctor who tells anyone "this is your fault" particularly after one cycle, I feel is not a reliable source of info into your fertility status.

[ManchesterMrs]

I think you are right atomic. I just felt he was being so negative without very good cause and really shook me up. He just bluntly told me my quality is really bad and then when we said, 'but we concieved our son very quickly' he just said it was 'a coincidence.' I definitely felt he had washed his hands of me (but I wouldn't cycle there again in any case).

He also told me that my AMH level meant my quality is bad and that it was 'masking' a low FSH number (my FSH was 4.1). He said my true FSH is probably much higher. But I cannot find much online to suggest that low AMH means poor quality. Also, on the US scale, my AMH level is 'normal' so I cannot understand why he had me crying in his office telling me I was basically a lost cause.

Psychologically I feel it is really affecting me as we start our sway but - as BGQ has said many times to me - I am just going to try my best to draw a line under it and think positively about going au natural.

Thanks so much atomic. I cannot wait to see our sway plan and to get going!!

[Babygirlquest]

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[ManchesterMrs]

Thanks Hun! Lovely of you to say so! Hoping I can prove you right very soon! xx