October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

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t's Official, DD is going to be a big sister! I peed on a First response this morning and got a faint line. SO I rushed out to get a digital...and there it was in plain sight!!! I called DH at work, I was so excited. I said I hate that I am telling you on the phone...and he said OMG I would have killed you if you waited! He was sooo happy! I cried and cried!! I can't wait for him to get home so I can make out with him!! I am sooo excited!!!!! SOOOOOO EXCITED!!! We are taking family picutes next week and I am going to make a sign for DD to hold that says "big sister" and then give them to our family when we are ready to tell!!!! I am so stunned I got a BFP at 10DPO....It took me being 20 days late with DD..I haven't even missed my AF yet! WE aren't telling anyone till I am 12 weeks since we had such a big scare with DD in the beginning...OF course I worry about that again, but I am just going to enjoy this!!

WOw,COngrats Tink ..So happy for you dear!

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No, we didn't DTD at all this cycle. No chance of a pregnancy. It is okay, I am feeling better, I am trying to move on and get excited about this next cycle.

I'm sorry that your it didn't work out this cycle. FX for your next cycle!

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Hey BluePuppy, Welcome! There are a ton of stickies with info in the TTC BOY section of the gender swaying forum. THere is an entire essay on timing. You can DTD one time on O day if you wish, but some people choose to DTD a few more times to add to the stored up sperm. I got two girls DTD only once, and a son from lots of BD, so I am going for a few times (at least two) this time around with my sway.

I got two girls from lot of BD and a son only once on the O day.

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Oh. HAHAHA sorry I have never heard of that expression before :P

Me too, LOL.

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Hey ladies, I'm jumping back in. Haven't posted much for a while, was getting too consumed in all this swaying stuff before I had even started the diet. Anyway, I've been on the diet/supps for 3 and a half weeks now and have put on 3kg already! Sheesh.

Tink, congrats!!

Welcome back!

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bluePuppy-welcome!

Bec-nice that you are back!

Im not skipping Oct. for sure. I was not even 5 weeks if I wouldn't take that test I never know I was pregnant. It was just so early I don't think I need to skip a month or more.

Go for it!!!

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How are YOU, Flava? Doing ok? I'm good, just cried last night because in my fave tv show, Parenthood, one of the characters is having a baby next week and they showed a preview and I just bawled thinking I may never experience that again. My poor DH feels bad, he just cuddled me forever. ): I'm usually pretty strong about it, but I need to get used to the reality that we may never have one.

(((HUGS))) xxxx

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Lola who knows when but I really, really think you have good reason to believe DH will get you pregnant again. I think you're wise to expect it to take time but the odds are very much in favor of it happening, thank goodness y'all KNOW it has happened before, KWIM? Lots of folks struggle with infertility and don't have that hope that you have, so try to hang on to it. It's going to happen. I just know it. If I have to hang out here for 4 years to see it, I'm going to see it. I believe it.

And Flava I'm with Lola, just bc a sway didn't work before doesn't mean this one won't. For one, you've changed significant things since last time. Personally I don't know what the heck I'd change from mine. I seriously can't see where, other than good ol' rollin' the dice, I "failed" and IF (and ladies, that is a GIANT if) we decided to have another baby I'd sway again. I just posted it in the sway results thread but IRL the folks I know with 3 girls FAR outnumber those with GGB, so if I see even 50% of sways working, well to me it's better than the natural odds. You've got a GREAT shot at getting blue. FX you do!

I can't recall if I mentioned it or not but DH has decided we should find out. Mostly because he thinks it's a girl too so why don't we just find out now and let the DD's know and hopefully all get super pumped about it. I can't lie and say part of me isn't hoping the first scan was wrong .... but I know odds are we'll just be getting confirmation of what I already know later this month. Anyhow, we'll have them write it down and then plan to go to my fave baby store and open it there, so when we open it I can immerse myself in retail therapy immediately Thank heavens I already know so I won't be bawling in the middle of the store. I really, really had hoped this was our little fella so it's nice that I've had some time to get most of the sad out.

Also through our convos DH has said if this isn't our son then maybe it means we aren't done with kids after all. I can't imagine raising 4 kids though, and I'm definitely NOT willing to get pg again w/o knowing it would be a boy. I don't want the emotional rollercoaster of HT. So IF we have another we'll do an international adoption. And right now, it's good for me to know that's out there because it means that IF 2 or 3 years from now I still feel an emptiness for not having a son, we CAN have one. And even better, we'll have one who really, really needs a home

So nice to see you here B, I was really really really sad to see you leave, but totally understandable. Glad your back dear!

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Foxy-I would love if you post you sway here because I don't really visit IG...but if you just post the IG link to your sway that's good to I would love to read both of it!
ummm yeahh I remember Kelly we where not good friends so to say...ummmm wait maybe it's a different Kelly? The Kelly I know did swayed but had a m/c and she said it was a boy. Then she swayed again and got a boy but at first they thought it's a girl because of the u/s ....so they went to another place and find out baby was a boy.

And right now Kelly gave a birth to a baby girl- without swaying it was a surprise ! SO swaying worked for her TWICE.

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Hey fab I think you did O on cd17 . I don't think it was fake. Could be different from the clomid or just a different cycle. I have that too sometimes it's just not the same.
But it's also good looks like you don't have a very long cycle this time!
Sorry you could not try twice but you got a boy before with only 1 try so let's hope you get a bfp!

Thanks Flava, I was hoping to try twice, but did only one. Lets see what will happen!