Not Feeling Very Positive..

[Grace]

I'm so sorry Faith, it breaks my heart to read your story. Hope you get the support you need right now from your family. Take care of yourself xoxo

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[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry Faith, please let me know how I can help.

[Faithinpink]

Hi ladies,
I have been sorta MIA.. I've popped on now and then but haven't posted for awhile, just took a bit of time to get my head around things.
The miscarriage took alot out of me and finally ended 3 weeks ago as u/s showed retaining tissue, my OB wanted to do D&C but I chose not too, had 2 courses of antibiotics and just prayed things will finally finish naturally and thankfully enough it did. After yet another u/s miscarriage confirmed complete and blood work confirmed my hcg levels back to normal..
The bleeding stopped 3 weeks ago yahoo , I was bleeding for like 7 weeks heavy thought it was never going to end .
So here iam thinking and wondering what to do next , my diet has been absolutely unbelievable, snacking eating meat , doing everything I shouldn't be lol...
I just feel so hurt after all I did dieting for 24 weeks strictly on LE and then to miscarry and go through the hurt of asking myself what I did wrong and wondering should we try again ??
Still don't know , I don't even have my cycle back yet or even think I've ovulated .
Sorry I'm just venting . I have been lurking in the back ground and have seen a few of us pink swayers miscarry and just wanna sorry to everyone that has gone through this it is a heartbreaking experience and has taught me something quite valuable and that is to let go of my control because at the end of the day I really cant control everything and has made me look at life alittle different.
My little ones really helpt me alot through all this I look at them and think how lucky I really am . I have 4 wonderful boys whom I adore and if I go on another journey and chose to have another baby its going to be a light sway .
Xx Thank u all for all your support

[Pbn3]

Hi fatihinpink and thank you for updating. I'm so sorry again

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[sharon]

Faith how far along were u when u lost your baby ? So sorry u had to go thru such a long process too. But glad alls bk to normal physically for you hun xx

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[1moregirl]

FaithinPink - soooo lovely to hear from you and hear that the miscarriage finally ended for you. It is a horrendous thing to go through. It is physically and emotionally exhausting. It took me a good 3 months to recover physically and a lot longer than that to recover emotionally. Just be kind to yourself, give yourself extra treats and indulgences and lots more cuddles and special times with your 4 boys. These things helped me the most. Don't be hard on yourself about the diet either and what you've been eating Hun.....you need to do whatever you need to do to look after yourself and feel comfortable and your body would be needing meat (iron) after bleeding for 7 weeks. Anyway, it's lovely to hear from you...you have been in my thoughts and prayers. Xxxooo

[Faithinpink]

Faith how far along were u when u lost your baby ? So sorry u had to go thru such a long process too. But glad alls bk to normal physically for you hun xx

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Hi Sharon, I was 9 weeks .. Yes very glad physically back to normal, and finally got AF back so am thinking of doing LE lightly and just go with the flow as the diet is second nature to me now.
My biggest downfall is I'm a big fan of snacking lol

[Faithinpink]

Faith - This is all so complicated, isn't it? Several of the pink swayers I've followed on this site have suffered miscarriages but of course it's not uncommon at all, even for those who haven't swayed a bit, which drives home the reality that, just like you said, pregnancy is outside of anyone's control.

Yeah its apparently very common miscarriage, maybe that's why the ultrasound lady that did my scan when the heartbeat couldn't be detected again had no bedside maner..No sorry for your loss just its common!!( would never go back there)

[sharon]

Faith i didnt do a strict LE diet & im a major snacker so i was surprised to conceove a girl but i did manage to eat differently and drink differently to my usual diet
Which was def HE. I think doing a light sway will still help esp as u said its second nature to you now xx I even had regular sex as months of e4d then e3d just did nothing

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[atomic sagebrush]

The whole point of LE Diet is to decline your condition a little bit and that is stillgoing to be working for you. The loss also takes a toll and I would have you TTC when you are ready to even if you are not back on diet that long.