Due June/July/ August 2017

[kc15880]

Hi hun. Im having a mare .. i went for a scan yesterday to check why i still have a light bleed and they found a tiny sac and 5cm x 3cm of what doctor said is possibly a clot which would explain the bleeding since 26th October! Sigh!! .. I had to go for bloods this morning to rule out new pregnancy so will see next steps on Monday. x Im anxious now!! Hope you are feeling ok KC xx

Physically ok, but mentally exhausted & very emotional. I hope the hormones settle & I can have a few days without tears soon. I just need time & I want it to hurry up! Ive started back on the LE diet already. Part of me doesnt mind so much, but I guess its just the preplanning that I dont like so I know I have enough potassium & kj in my day. Otherwise I would come well under both minimums if I just ate what I thought & that wouldnt be good or me or trying for another pregnancy.

[MrsSparkles]

Physically ok, but mentally exhausted & very emotional. I hope the hormones settle & I can have a few days without tears soon. I just need time & I want it to hurry up! Ive started back on the LE diet already. Part of me doesnt mind so much, but I guess its just the preplanning that I dont like so I know I have enough potassium & kj in my day. Otherwise I would come well under both minimums if I just ate what I thought & that wouldnt be good or me or trying for another pregnancy.

Is it helping having the LE to occupy you ?
It's such an involved and all consuming thing, that it really helped me take my mind off my loss last time...well as much as anything can.
The tears do stop, weeks after I would still excuse myself and go the loo and have a little cry at work, other times they would just flow wherever I was.
Hormones still swimming around will do that, and of course the indescribable pain of a loss - there really are no words to describe that feeling.
I will be cheering youn on, and I really hope that you get a sticky bean soon <3

[kc15880]

I dont want to obsess over the LE at all so just not wanting to get too crazy planning etc. Getting back into it has been easier than I thought. I really never got back into snacking all the time like I used too & I realised that I didnt miss meat as much as I thought I did. Im just over eating the same type of foods all the time. At least is summer now & there are a lot of different types of stone fruit available to eat which will help give me a bit of variety in my diet. I really do wonder if I was on the LE diet too long (40 weeks) & that contributed to the m/c. As much as I am disappointed by eating more "boy" & putting on 5kg in the past 5 weeks maybe it will be the break that my body needed. for a successful pregnancy

[MrsSparkles]

I dont want to obsess over the LE at all so just not wanting to get too crazy planning etc. Getting back into it has been easier than I thought. I really never got back into snacking all the time like I used too & I realised that I didnt miss meat as much as I thought I did. Im just over eating the same type of foods all the time. At least is summer now & there are a lot of different types of stone fruit available to eat which will help give me a bit of variety in my diet. I really do wonder if I was on the LE diet too long (40 weeks) & that contributed to the m/c. As much as I am disappointed by eating more "boy" & putting on 5kg in the past 5 weeks maybe it will be the break that my body needed. for a successful pregnancy

I really don't think it is anything you did, most of the time it really is due to something being not quite right with the bean.
I remember the nurse telling me that the 1 in 4 pregnancies end in mc, was something she really questioned, and that it in her mind is closer to 2 in 4, and women go on to have healthy pregnancies after mc.
Don't be disappointed in eating more boy, you have to get yourself back to a fighting place.
Reset yourself !

[All*blue*everything]

This time next week I will know if im having my 5th son or 1st daughter!!...im.so excited!!

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[MrsSparkles]

This time next week I will know if im having my 5th son or 1st daughter!!...im.so excited!!

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So excited for you
And I really hope you hear what you want to, although I know you and your boys won't mind either way xx

[All*blue*everything]

So excited for you
And I really hope you hear what you want to, although I know you and your boys won't mind either way xx

Thank u x

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[GirlieCat]

Bre- so happy you found the heartbeat on the Doppler. I have found it right off the bat a couple times, but one day I had a really hard time. It is reassuring to be able to check baby.

Sparkles- how are you feeling?

[MrsSparkles]

Bre- so happy you found the heartbeat on the Doppler. I have found it right off the bat a couple times, but one day I had a really hard time. It is reassuring to be able to check baby.

Sparkles- how are you feeling?

Bre & GirlieCat -How often do you use the doppler, I am thinking of borrowing one from a friend.

And I feel a lot better thank you GirlieCat, I won't let the sadness stop me enjoying the pregnancy - if he's anything like my husband he will be really amazing.

[GirlieCat]

I am so glad to hear you are feeling better- emotionally. I think hormones play a huge part and we forget that. I have been having a lot of depressed days lately which is shocking me. Holiday stress and announcing pregnancy is probably not helping.

I just borrowed my Doppler about a week ago and used it about 3 times. I am guessing I will use it about 2 times a week at least till I can feel baby move. My sister asked to hear baby once so one time was for her. I think it is fun and helps bring me peace of mind. I don't think I would have bought it myself, but if you can borrow one, I would definitely suggest it. I think it will help you bond with baby too.