Due June/July/ August 2017

[kc15880]

Big hugs! Emotionally I was a wreck for a week after my M/C just before christmas. Im happy to say that I am in a much better place now & just focused on 2017 being a new start. Still waiting for AF to show so we can start TTC again. If you need to there is a TTC after loss forum which helped me a lot in that week.

[Dreamsister]

Dear Erin. So very sorry to hear about your bleed and useless appointment at the doctor who did not give you any explanation. Can you go to someone else and let them examine you? You must be so worried. I pray that your bub is ok and that this is just a little bump on the road. Please keep us updated. My thoughts goes out to you. It must be so nerve-vracking. This is something that we all fear.

[Erin514]

Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts and KC for the forum suggestion. I have definitely miscarried, which turned into a hemmorage early this morning and I'm now in the ER waiting for a D&C. I'm not sure where we'll go from here as this was my third pregnancy and my third hemmorage (the first two in the third stage of otherwise normal deliveries which produced perfectly healthy babies). I probably won't hang out on this particular forum anymore although I might still lurk around other sections of the site while figuring out what's next.

Thanks for your support and all the best for your pregnancies.

[Dreamsister]

I am so sorry for your loss Erin. This is so cruel.
Did you feel any pain or did you just start bleeding suddenly? Did you also MC at 8 weeks with the other two pregnancies?
I wish you a healthy and fast recovery. Be kind to yourself.


Mother to 3 handsome boys ❤️ and pregnant with a baby girl due in June 2017 [emoji120]. DW (41) [emoji1326] DH (38) [emoji144]

[Erin514]

I had cramping as well as bleeding with the miscarriage. My other two pregnancies led to perfectly healthy boys, but since I hemorraged during delivery, and the second one was quite bad, I'm just worried about what might happen next time if we keep trying.

[BabsNMK]

Erin I'm so terribly sorry for you. I can't imagine how scary that is to hemorrhage each time.

[purple]

I'm so sorry for your loss Erin I also hemorrhaged with my miscarriage in 2015 and it was quite scary but I didn't have the issue with my births or my miscarriage earlier last year. It my just be a coincidence that you have had it happen 3 times now.

Please take care of yourself and I wish you all the best when you are ready to TTC again.

[Dreamsister]

Erin, do you know why this is happening to you? Are you being examined to get an explanation? How old are your boys?


Mother to 3 handsome boys ❤️ and pregnant with a baby girl due in June 2017 [emoji120]. DW (41) [emoji1326] DH (38) [emoji144]

[MrsSparkles]

I had cramping as well as bleeding with the miscarriage. My other two pregnancies led to perfectly healthy boys, but since I hemorraged during delivery, and the second one was quite bad, I'm just worried about what might happen next time if we keep trying.

Erin, I know it's not anything you will feel up to pursuing at this moment.
After you have healed, you might want to suggest to your Dr's to do a blood profile (clotting factors etc)
So sorry you are going through this.

[Erin514]

My midwife did refer me to a hematologist to check for clotting disorders after the second hemmorage but she wasn't able to find anything. She told me though that two hemmorages were likely a coincidence and she would only check for the 2-3 most common blood problems, as there was no point checking for rare disorders. I'm considering doing one of those DNA tests from ancestry.com because you can download your raw data and check for a wide range of genetic conditions. Maybe that would reveal something the hemotologist didn't check for and provide me with more answers.