Oops, pregnant, no sway...or, not much anyway...

[applesoup]

I have 3 boys & found out (on my birthday) that I'm pregnant. I'm really torn. I want to enjoy this pregnancy. I want to love this little baby. Part of me can't help but hope it might finally be my little girl.

The tough part is that nothing much changed...
-My husband has a pH of 9-10 & we hadn't started our swaying diet yet.
-It did end up being a -1 or O+12...but I'm not sure which. (My other boys were from up to 5 days before.)
-I did use lime tampons after it happened because I knew it was too close...
-I did drink Crystal light & take a benadryl immediately...

But I can't really believe that those things are enough.

I'm going to try and hide the pregnancy until after Christmas. I just don't need all the smart things people have to say.

Thanks for listening...I don't have anyone to talk to about this. I could just use some support... And ideas on how to hide a 4th pregnancy (when my muscles are already relaxing!!)

Thanks

[nuthinbutpink]

I hope it is winter where you are so you can wear some jackets! Even though you did not sway, you still have a chance. There is always a chance. Good luck and KUP!

[begonia]

Hugs Applesoup!!! I do agree with NBP, you absolutely still have a chance! FWIW I swayed HARD for a boy, I'm not sure I could have done anything more than I did, and still ended up with our DD3, so ... even the best laid plans don't yield the desired result. Even if you had gotten to fully sway there's no promise you would have gotten your DD. FX this sweet little accident happens to be a girl! You'll have to stick around and keep us posted

Re: hiding it, I think those long billowy cardigans and drapey (but not empire!!!) tops help a ton. Wear low-cut jeans so that you don't cut into your .. umm, widening waist. Carrying a cross-body purse instead of over-the-shoulder also can help if you're just out walking around and worried you'll run into someone.

[applesoup]

Thanks everyone. By the way, how do I create one of those...thingies @ the end or your message?

[TTC5]

You do have a chance!!! And congrats!!

[juffertje2]

applesoup, do you know already???
I'm a mum of 3 boys and yeah.....oops....I got pregnant. Needles to say I'm praying my hands of for a girl. I'm 8 weeks now. We did 'it' on saterday and my ovutest was positive on wednsday.....That's all. No lime, no checking PH, no diet, nothing of that.....God do I hope this time it was a pink one who came in!!!!!!

[KnockYourBallsOff]

LOTS of women don't sway and have a girl after 3 boys! Praying this is your girl! No doubt I'll be in teh same boat soon You're not alone!!!

[angel-pink]

hope you get what you want ladies do keep posting

[Flava]

Congrats! I hope it's your girl! How to hide it I don't know I could not hide my #4 anymore I guess the more we are pregnant the earlier it show?

[Zivic-Bubac]

how do I create one of those...thingies @ the end or your message?

Congratulations!!!! The more kids you have, statistically you have greater chance for opposite gender
About smileys if you were referring to them? Click on 'Go Advanced" right next to Post Quick Reply and that's it! HTH!