Due Sept/Oct/Nov 2017

[Butterflies buttercups]

It's great u feel confident in your sway though XX - isn't it terrible we feel like this when I'm sure in the old days ppl just used to embrace and enjoy their pregnancies regardless of gender !
Anyway im glad i have this place to say how I feel xx


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[XXforhubby]

It's great u feel confident in your sway though XX - isn't it terrible we feel like this when I'm sure in the old days ppl just used to embrace and enjoy their pregnancies regardless of gender !
Anyway im glad i have this place to say how I feel xx


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I hear ya! I tell ya, I've seen way too man FAB sways give opposites, and seen sways that I felt would give blue, give pink. It's enough to make your head spin! I think everyone really is fair game, which sucks when you did the best you could!



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[fiveboys]

Ive been looking at old scans to work out ramzi but i got no idea where the placenta was.. i read it was something like 97 perc correct though or was that debunked? Ive just found out my niece is due the same week as me..my thought straight away is i bet she will have a girl and il have number 7 boy :/ im trying to hold off telling anyone until the harmony results are back..they said they ring with the results and i cant ever imagine them saying a girl..i probably wouldnt believe them lol. I would so love a future without gd raising its head if this is a girl i will finally feel free. Im praying for us all x

[GMarie]

Ugh I'm so behind on this thread, congrats to all who have joined!
I have been so sick I've been in the hospital for iv fluids on and off. Thank goodness my brother has some time off school and has come to help with the kids. I was hoping such a difference in my normal morning sickness meant this could be a boy....then we had a scan and I almost passed out....twins! Doctor said he was fairly sure they are fraternal...I bet two girls! I am freaking out. No history of twins except for great grandma!

[Georgia_Peach]

Ugh I'm so behind on this thread, congrats to all who have joined!
I have been so sick I've been in the hospital for iv fluids on and off. Thank goodness my brother has some time off school and has come to help with the kids. I was hoping such a difference in my normal morning sickness meant this could be a boy....then we had a scan and I almost passed out....twins! Doctor said he was fairly sure they are fraternal...I bet two girls! I am freaking out. No history of twins except for great grandma!

Omgosh! How exciting!! Congratulations! 😁

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[1pinkplease.]

@ Gmarie, that's awesome news...congratulations! All the best in your pregnancy!!

[1pinkplease.]

Ive been looking at old scans to work out ramzi but i got no idea where the placenta was.. i read it was something like 97 perc correct though or was that debunked? Ive just found out my niece is due the same week as me..my thought straight away is i bet she will have a girl and il have number 7 boy :/ im trying to hold off telling anyone until the harmony results are back..they said they ring with the results and i cant ever imagine them saying a girl..i probably wouldnt believe them lol. I would so love a future without gd raising its head if this is a girl i will finally feel free. Im praying for us all x

Have you had the test done yet? Is it just the blood test or is a scan included?

[Butterflies buttercups]

Wow congratulations GMarie! Amazing ! I think twins are a miracle !
U never know could be two boys ! That explains why u feel so rubbish x


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[Wantanother2017]

I've no clue on Ramzi Tara sorry!
However I can totally relate to anxiety regarding gender - I haven't even had my harmony test yet and I'm so worried about the results (gender side) I'm obv hoping baby's healthy too -

I'm already thinking if it's a girl my life is complete I can get on with my life and this black cloud will disappear that's followed me for 2.5 years - I can shop for pink and know il have my little mini me forever and my husband will be so pleased too plus my eldest only wants a sister !!
If it's a boy I don't know what my reaction will be or how il cope again with shopping for blue and telling people - the hassle of another c section for something I didn't really want (sounds so awful but exactly how I feel)
No one understands so I'm hoping it's ok to vent here ... anyway just dreading it all and hope I've done enough!
I can't stop going over My fitness pal totals for 12 weeks working it all out and looking at old sways still I'm obsessed !! Doesn't help I feel terrible with sickness and fatigue I'm being a rubbish mum hardly plying with kids at the mo I just watch them play instead of getting on the floor and joining in I just don't have the energy or mental motivation to play at the moment due to all this anxiety!!!

Sorry for the long post !
Xxx


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I'm sorry you're really struggling BB. I hope so much you get your daughter this time. I felt like this the entire time swaying. I had such anxiety over everything I put in my mouth and the timing of the foods, BD, everything because I know I'll feel such guilt if this is indeed another boy. I couldn't bear each BFN because I knew it meant another month of anxiety filled swaying. Since my BFN the anxiety has decreased only because I know it's out of my hands. But it's still a huge struggle.

Last night I had a dream I opened the little envelope we plan to have the sonographer write down the gender in, and it read boy. In my dream I was crushed, I crumpled it up and just wanted to crawl in a hole and never come out.
The thought of passing the girl section again and going through all of the sparse and unattractive (to me) boy items again, I almost can't bear it. The lingering feeling of "our we really done now having kids or not" that will come with this not being our daughter. Having to send my tiny boy off for a circumcision, the labor for a child I will struggle to welcome, just everything. It's too much. I woke up in the middle of the night with my heart pounding.

So I can relate. I hope we get our daughters. And that if we don't we learn to cope and at least get past this hard time in our lives that feels like it will never pass until we meet our little girl.
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[Butterflies buttercups]

Wantanother I echo how u feel and how u described it all - it seems we all share these deep dark feelings and there's only one thing to stop it all ... having a girl ! If only it was that easy !

I just don't know how I'm going to react when they call me with the results I hope I'm at home and not out somewhere if it's s boy I will know next Friday they said so I hope this time passes quickly .
I'm also having a scan on Wednesday and really looking forward to showing our boys the little baby on the screen hopefully il get some
Pictures to put up and show u all
Hugs to everyone !! Xxx


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