Abundant April 2ww

[Pbn3]

That's fine and perfect in fact because as atomic often says: your sway, your way. You're doing the main thing which is the diet and the rest can be tailored to what you're comfortable with In any case you are welcome to every speck of my blue dust and sending it your way lol. I'm off to do baths etc (that time of night where I am) so I'll say bye for now but talk soon!

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[Skyblue]

That's fine and perfect in fact because as atomic often says: your sway, your way. You're doing the main thing which is the diet and the rest can be tailored to what you're comfortable with In any case you are welcome to every speck of my blue dust and sending it your way lol. I'm off to do baths etc (that time of night where I am) so I'll say bye for now but talk soon!

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Sure. It's midnight here. Dd is a little unwell so keeping me up. Will look forward to talk soon. Thankyou!


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[kittendreams]

Fingers crossed and baby dust to you all!
I am nursing my December baby right now and he is the sweetest little bug!
I hope there are lots of little Christmas miracles on their way to you xx

[AshFind]

Welcome sky !! I have 4 boys here lol and I can tell you for sure when we are ttc my husband thinks it's a free for all whenever he wants so we have an attempt at least once a day I may get lucky and he wants to skip a day (not wants to but is gone for work) that's been the hardest part of my sway because he's not cooperating on e4 +1 so maybe a bunch of attempts would work well in your case ttc boy

[AshFind]

So frustrating.... still no flashing smiley today!! Grrrr

[Lolabelle]

Hi & welcome skyblue!! I have 2 boys and think I unknowingly swayed blue...of course they are amazing boys, but time for a girl now! I just wanted to get pregnant at the time & wasn't researching sways. A few things that I believe resulted in my boys: Preseed, FertileCM supplement, BD 2-3 times in fertile window and before. Atomic will tell you, but timing doesn't seem to matter, but amount of attempts do. I had a hard time accepting this, but giving my e4d and 1 at pos OPK a shot. I have never been on the HE diet and have been a vegetarian since I was 13, so I don't think diet in this case helped me conceive boys. However, there are certain "boy friendly" foods that I love that I have completely cut out this time (since last June) such as potatoes, bananas, salty foods & dry cereal. Don't know if this will really help, but makes me feel better. GL & sending my blue baby dust your way!!! With all of that being said-any factors that helped you ttc a girl the first time (even unknowingly?)

[maximbella]

Hi sky, welcome!!

Ashfind, I had the same thing last cycle. I ended up stressing myself out so much over not getting the solid smiley that my O got delayed almost 3 weeks. I know it's hard, but try not to stress about it (as I'm in the same boat right now). It will happen...

On a totally different front.... One of my friends recently adopted a baby from China. They were pregnant and lost the baby at 37 weeks in utero. It was horrific and they decided that they didn't want to try again, and went the adoption route. My husband and I were talking about it last night and said that if we don't get pregnant this month, we are going to look into it as well. We are blessed with two beautiful girls, and as much as we want to have more of our own, there are so many babies and little ones in need. I looked briefly online and the stories are just so sad. Has anyone ever thought or looked into adoption?

[AshFind]

Max I have several friends who wanted to adopt but ended up going through the foster care system (in the us) and they get their choice of what babies/children they want to take because they always get a phone call first and they can say yes or no. I have two friends and between the both of them they have adopted 6 children this way. It's much cheaper you get 10k for taking in your first child and your definitely helping the children get out of an unsafe house and sometimes even an unsafe foster house! GL maybe this is why you haven't gotten your bfp yet. Something more is meant for you

[Lolabelle]

Maxim-how sad, but wonderful that they were able to adopt! I don't have any helpful info to add, but that would be a win-win scenario in many ways-providing a baby with a home and then you get your sweet baby girl!

Question-I'm getting signs that I'm about to O, EWCM & the usual pain in my right side. I'm trying to stick with the e4d +1 with pos OPK plan. I seem to O around cd12/13, so I think it will happen this weekend. If my last BD day was Mon, should we BD today today(Thurs)or Fri? Which day would be better if I do end up with a pos OPK on Sat/Sun and get another attempt in? Or does it matter? Already getting nervous that I'm going to mess up the 1 attempt!!!

[AshFind]

No help here Lola I struggle with the thought of it also. We BD twice yesterday so I think I'm going to try to make him hold out until I get a +opk hopefully Sunday