Abundant April 2WW Thread (4)

[Skyblue]

I hear you. I hope with all my heart that u get a surprise bfp
this month. I m going to
hold on to that until Wednesday.


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[Pbn3]

Mummy2boys I'm sorry af arrived here's hoping next cycle is the one! As for dh I'd just keep initiating bd's when the time comes and not even talk about lol! He knows how babies are made so as long as he is willing to dtd unprotected I'd say keep on on keeping on xx

[Pbn3]

Just had a quick look at your chart mummy2boys. Is a 9 day lp usual for you? And what cd are you starting opks? Just asking as the le diet can definitely affect your cycles both when you ovulate and your lp. Will be interesting to see when you o this cycle. I'd start testing at cd10 in case of an earlier o... and keep an eye on your lp, if it continues to be 9 days there are things you can do to try and increase it but don't worry about it just yet (could be a one off) unless it happens a few times then maybe create a thread asking how to increase it naturally

[Sumbal]

Thank you everyone here who encouraged me..

Pbn. You are such a great person who is helping and motivating everyone. Soon your time ll come with lots of happiness. I wish you get your bfp asap with bundle of happiness. Just leave everything on nature and live happily without any fear. Then nature ll bless you automatically. Lots of love for you. When I w as reading your message. I literally had tears in my eyes. I wah I could hug you.

[Pbn3]

Thank you for your lovely message sumbal ❤

[mummy2boys]

Thanks pbn and sky. And also fingers crossed for you sumbal, sorry missed you off my earlier post.
Yes we will carry on bd without protection but unfortunately my dh is very good at 'getting out on time' if you know what I mean [emoji23][emoji23]
My lp has been 9 or 10 days since I started checking, I never used opks or anything with my two boys, they were both very quick conceptions. I wondered about whether 9 or 10 days was too short, have you any advice about how to lengthen it? x


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[Lolabelle]

Morning everyone!
Mummy-sorry about AF ugh! How long have you been ttc? As everyone always mentions here...just have to remind ourselves that if it's taking us longer to get our girls-then we're doing a good sway!
Maxim-what is the latest? Have you O'd yet?
Iwant4-I have been praying for you everyday! I know this wait has to be soooo hard! Hope you're staying distracted with your boys & painting those beautiful wooden dolls!!
Sumbal-do you have your tests ready?? Funny how much you want your boy & I want my girl so bad! Fx we get what we want!!!
Netti-are you still here? Thinking about ya!
Ash-how are you this AM? Staying distracted? Counting down to POAS! So excited for all of us to test at the same time! Anymore dress shopping? Lol! There were twin girls at the bday party yesterday...makes my heart just melt. They are my sis-in-law's family & I have heard they did IVF.
Sky-I second everything you said to pbn! Literally the perfect, beautifully written words! Hope DD is feeling better!
Pbn-I'm sorry you're feeling down Getting rid of the baby stuff sounds so final & I know how emotional that would be! It would be symbolic of helping you close that chapter though & you may feel relieved being able to devote your time to things you enjoy! Volunteering sounds like the perfect opportunity for you!!!! No doubt you would be amazing at helping others as you are such an awesome support here!!! You have sooo much knowledge & experience!!! Please don't leave us though wahhh Hope you get your miracle slip AND volunteer!! Sooo this is probably a backwards thought, but what if you take charge of the condoms & put a tiny pinhole so oops, condom broke lol And well if you got rid of everything, you'll just have to go shopping...hand on over the credit card DH...and you probably would have to shop anyway for a girl!!! Hahaha ;P I know exactly how you feel though! I have 2 beautiful boys, a loving DH, sweetest dog, love the city we live in, great job, awesome family etc. To others it may look like we have everything and we do, but won't feel complete yet until I have my girl! It would feel like winning the lottery!!! As you mentioned...I see others around me getting their DG...no reason that can't be me too! I just try my best to stay positive & tell myself that anything is possible!!!!!!!

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[Sumbal]

Pbn. For you lots of prayers and love.
Mummy 2: sure. We all are going to test soon. I am also new who checked OPK and I am shocked that ovulate so early on CD 9. I am also worried because some where I read that early ovulation means immature egg. So anything can be possible. But good news for you is at least that egg would be mature. Best of luck.
Lolla: I am desperately waiting to be mother of a son. Hope you get you girl offcorse girls are best friends of mother.
Ash: what about your tests? OPK tests. What results are coming? Hope to hear positive from you also.


Best of luck everyone.

[AshFind]

Pbn that's so tough! Me and hubby talked about more when we only had two and he was done done. And I'd dwell on it every so often for a couple years and when I finally started working out and looking great I decided no more kids was fine so I wouldn't gain it all back. And once I was at acceptance of being done. BAM here came #3 lol. So if no one if fixed there is always that chance. But I think you'd be fantastic on a helpline even if you get a baby this cycle!
Mummy af stinks but your sway will be that much stronger next cycle GL!!
Sky glad dd is feeling better. I have one that came down with sickness today ☹️
WEDNESDAY TEST DAY is getting so close ladies!!
Lola I feel nauseous sore bbs and embarrassingly gas [emoji40] headaches last couple days but then again this is all af symptoms! No shopping to pass the time today I have one that's started vomiting this am so now my nausea makes me doubt it's anything to do with pregnancy. If everyone is well though I'll be going shopping Tuesday to pass the day faster!
Sumbal opks are the same everyday no fade in yet but it does help pass my POAS addiction and maybe if I get a darker opk tomorrow I'll talk hubs into testing at 9dpo otherwise I may as well wait till 10.
I think Wednesday I am going to test and post before I look at any updates because I'll feel so bad if I get a bfp an Lola or sky doesn't! I don't mind if you gals get bfp and I don't lol but I'm a people pleaser I don't want anyone to be [emoji24]


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[Lolabelle]

Ash-I will be happy for any of you with BFPs even if I don't get one...so please don't feel bad & post away!!! Someone needs a BFP, preferably all of us!! I'm not expecting one...haven't noticed any signs & my hope and expectations seem to decrease with each new cycle!! Trying so hard to think positive, but hard to stop my mind from thinking about everything that bothers me!!!
I can't believe we are almost there...almost testing time...the moment of truth eeeeek! Fx for lots of BFPs!!!!


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