October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

[Plum3]

How long are your cycles Bec? On a normal 30 day cycle I would have thought that even starting on Day 14, and the dtd every 2 nights after. Then this way DH doesn't actually know which night is the big night so no performance anxiety, and it will keep a fresh stock of strong boys half way towards the goal I wrote a post at the end of my attempt thread about why I just went for the O-2 x2. But I'm also wondering is it an advantage to give then boys a days rest in the crypts ready for the final race? For me +opk day is ov day where some ladies get the 24-48hr window, resting time? So for some +opk day is the right day and other fast ov's the day/s before? When I've tried on +opk day I've had girls as they were the ones prepared to do the full marathon, where the boys went in for the sprint to the crypts?? At the end of the day, with incentive, men are usually faster and more competetitive than women. Do they sit in the crypts egging each other on, waiting for the big signal and pushing the girls out the way when it comes, where as the girls have the sense to wait for slighty imperfect conditions knowing the guys are wimps when it comes down to it lol and hoping to sneak in if the egg rejects the boys.

The above is probably all silly rambling, but who knows what will make that final bit of difference?

Up until the last 6 months my cycles were all over the place. My last 4 have been 55, 39, 39 and 53 days. Nope, not silly rambling, I get what you mean. I get 2 days of +opk and always O on the 2nd +ve day. Even when on Clomid I had two positive days.

So if I want DH to have a monster drink when we attempt should I just get him to that for our BD attempt after the first +ve OPK? So make that our big attempt with preseed as well and all the others are just in case attempts. Does that make sense?

[TTC5]

Yay! We are both trying this cycle!

What CD are you now?

[TTC5]

Up until the last 6 months my cycles were all over the place. My last 4 have been 55, 39, 39 and 53 days. Nope, not silly rambling, I get what you mean. I get 2 days of +opk and always O on the 2nd +ve day. Even when on Clomid I had two positive days.

So if I want DH to have a monster drink when we attempt should I just get him to that for our BD attempt after the first +ve OPK? So make that our big attempt with preseed as well and all the others are just in case attempts. Does that make sense?

If I go more than one time, I will get hubby to drink a monster each time, and I will do the preseed each time too

[melon]

What lube is that, lbam?
Did you test with a digital tester?

Ok ladies well we are going to try THIS cycle :O
I just have a feeling to try now....

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Plum3]

What CD are you now?

I am CD14. I probably won't O for at least another 2 weeks though.

[Plum3]

If I go more than one time, I will get hubby to drink a monster each time, and I will do the preseed each time too

That's my dilemma though. Because I don't know when I will O I can't be sure when O-2 will even be. So I can't just get DH to drink a monster each time we BD. He might be in for some serious monster drinking! And I don't want to use preseed for every attempt either, that stuff is pricey!

[TTC5]

I am CD14. I probably won't O for at least another 2 weeks though.

Excited!!! We will ovulate so close to each other =D

[TTC5]

That's my dilemma though. Because I don't know when I will O I can't be sure when O-2 will even be. So I can't just get DH to drink a monster each time we BD. He might be in for some serious monster drinking! And I don't want to use preseed for every attempt either, that stuff is pricey!

Can you tell when O is coming close by observing opk's/your co and cm?

[CapricornAquarius]

Hi ladies I haven't been in here for a while, long story I thought we missed the boat this month, so that made me start to reconsider the whole idea of even having a 3rd child, cause Im so scared of having a failed sway.

Turns out someone above had other plans for me cause Im yep dont know how to take it yet, i should be jumping with joy but when I saw the 2lines come up I

All I know is this little bean was so meant to be, that I know for sure.

Dd1 Dd2 bfp out of my hands now in regards to boy/girl

[love being a mummy]

Congratulations, sending you lots and lots of blue dust.