October Chit Chat Thread for Blue Swayers. All welcome!!

**Flava** · October 24th, 2011, 09:50 AM

TTC5 -I really hope this work out for you on first try!

**Flava** · October 24th, 2011, 01:32 PM

ELP- i just saw your post so can't wait for pics tomorrow!!! oh and

**3Pink1Blue** · October 24th, 2011, 02:21 PM

foxy- so sorry hun, big hug. Nice thing here is you're sadly in good company.

TTC5- I say go for it! I think you're diet length is good and your pH is great. FWIW we decided at the last minute to give May a shot and, well, look where it got me

Dreamblue- she definitely didn't get it from the pediatrician. I sent her to my pedi and I've been to several appt with her, he's desperately trying to help.

Daisy- Ita on ignoring the owt, most of them say I'm having a girl.

CA- WOOHOO!! congrats on the bfp!!

ELP - Happy Birthday Hun!!! GL at the u/s today, can't wait to hear what's cookin'

lubrication- pre-seed sways boy partially because of the pH but also because it's in general sperm friendly. It's very easy for the sperm to swim through where many other lubricants are thicker making it harder for sperm to get through. Less sperm getting to egg therefor swaying girl. I conceived 3 girls using regular old lube so if I hadn't had enough of my own cm I would only have used a fertility friendly lube. Just an fyi, the amount of cm when you wipe is just the tip of the iceberg. Go fishing to find even more and once you're in the mood to dtd you'll have way more then you thought. I had quite a bit coming out but while we were dtd dh commented I had tons by my cervix.
As for egg whites, if the eggs are treated right your risk of infection is minimal. It's literally as easy as washing the egg with soap and water and letting it sit in the fridge.

**Hobbermittens** · October 24th, 2011, 02:45 PM

Flava, I am sorry you feel done. Maybe you can adopt some day if you feel ready?

ELP, Happy birthday and good luck at your scan!

I am supposed to have my attempt tonight (well, the first attempt. We will do it a few times until ) day) but now I am worried that I am having too much hormone this cycle that is making my temps high and my cervix is unreachable? I wrote a post about it. I am worried that I will get a girl! What should I do? AaaaaaHHHGH!

Also, I thought I would get a +opk today (CD11) but haven't yet, and DH has been abstaining a couple days (today is day 4) so we have to DTD tonight or it will be too long an abstain! So what if I don't O for another few days? I hate all this craziness. Why can't I O on the same day every cycle?!

**melon** · October 24th, 2011, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by Flava

For me ladies Im just sure no bfp this month so we are so done.I don't feel it like last month no symptoms at all ect. I really looking forward to loose all this weight 25 lbs!!!

So i will go learn the girl diet and find Lola's post about it . And i better go find a weight loss ticker! I will stick around at least till i loose weight and to cheer up you guys but not much longer because clearly a ttc forum is not for someone who will never have more kids...
Yeah in a way it's sad that I will never have a son but who knows? Maybe it is better this way...and maybe I would end up with girl #5 anyway!(most likely)

Flava- I am so sorry you are not feeling bfp this month. I hope you find peace with your decision. Loosing weight and fitting into that fav skinny jeans is a terrific goal to have and meet... good luck!!!

**Flava** · October 24th, 2011, 03:23 PM

hobber-I don't feel down i just want this 2ww to be over. No way DH would ever adopt.

I think high cervix is a sign of high fertility? do not skip another month!

dreamblue- thanks I will be fine

**LolaInLove** · October 24th, 2011, 04:21 PM

Originally Posted by Bec

I don't really get a fade in with OPKs. I get EWCM the same day I get my first +ve OPK and then I usually O on the second +ve OPK day. So once I realise I am going to O it will be O-1 so I don't really want to wait until then to start attempting because I risk only being able to do one attempt.

Bec, maybe you should just shoot for the once and done? (Meaning do it one time only, about 12-18 hours after your 1st positive opk.)

**LolaInLove** · October 24th, 2011, 04:22 PM

Originally Posted by Flava

For me ladies Im just sure no bfp this month so we are so done.I don't feel it like last month no symptoms at all ect. I really looking forward to loose all this weight 25 lbs!!!

So i will go learn the girl diet and find Lola's post about it . And i better go find a weight loss ticker! I will stick around at least till i loose weight and to cheer up you guys but not much longer because clearly a ttc forum is not for someone who will never have more kids...
Yeah in a way it's sad that I will never have a son but who knows? Maybe it is better this way...and maybe I would end up with girl #5 anyway!(most likely)

Aww, I'm sorry to read that Flava. I will say, going back to the girl diet has been nice, I feel a lot better about myself and have lost about 15lbs. Are you guys going to maybe not try/not prevent?

**LolaInLove** · October 24th, 2011, 04:23 PM

Congrats, CapAqu!!!! I know you are nervous, but your bean was meant to join your family, so let's all be positive and pray it's a healthy little boy!

**Flava** · October 24th, 2011, 04:24 PM

Lola- no we are not going to do that. Normally I get pregnant really easy and if we do no prevent we end up with a bfp for sure. a pink one not else. so no way.

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